Lost my baby

[k8_005]

hi hun, i also have suffered the same 2 anacephaly (skull and brain misformed) and made teh same decision as you on both occasions. mostly its rare and unusual for anyone to have it more than once. if you want to discuss more i have done a lot of research that you may find useful information. big hugs it is the wrost decision that you will ever make and please please remember it is not your fault i felt very guilty for a long time after our first loss. xxxx

 

[k8_005]

also we were not given the chance for a burial or cremation as we chose to go to an abortion clinic, however we would have if we went through an induced labour at the hospital ( my hospital would not do a d&c becasue of heartbeat being there after 9 weeks and i was over that at the time) I know i would have preffered a burial but i also know my husband would have found it immensly stressful, we instead planted a rose bush in the garden i have kept my scan pictures, x

 

[k8_005]

Baby being cremated tomorrow going to be such hard day / we are not going to cremation to difficult

Going to mass in morning then going to build a bear and having scan picture sewen into a bear xx

a lovely idead with build a bear. thinking of you xxx

 

[JJ Mum]

I'm so sorry this happened hun X
Just take some time for each other as a couple and allow yourself to grieve

After the D&C , baby went to a mass cremation, so I too had no place to visit- so I brought a special rose ,called sweet rememberance on my due date and planted it in my garden (a named one so I could replace if something happened to it) and plant forget me knots under neath, I can visit it anytime I like

In time you will find what feels right for you two to remember baby - there is no hurry X