and it was a wee boy
a NORMAL male to be correct
I was led to beleive that my baby had large chromosome problems, as well as heart defect and cysic hygroma, i was given no hope of the baby suviving and so to be kind to the baby i had a termination, which was the most difficult and soul destroying thing i have ever done. but now i am so in shock that the chromosomes were normal. I am so angry with the consultant as at the time when they found the cystic hygroma and the heart defect on the scan it didnt even enter my head to have a termination but after speeking to the consultant she went on about possible syndroms, downs, edwards, turners and then asked me what i wanted to do and that she would have no problems in doing a d&c for me even though i was 13 weeks but i had to decide that day b4 it was too late to have one, so i trusted her and signed the concent form, i thought to myself she wouldnt have mentioned a termination if she didnt think it was the right thing, but on the way out i asked her if she thought i was doing the right thing and she said yes she didnt think the baby would survive and it looks like massive chromosome problems.
I am sorry for going on a bit here but i really had to get all this out, none of my questions can be answered till i see her in six weeks time.
a NORMAL male to be correct
I was led to beleive that my baby had large chromosome problems, as well as heart defect and cysic hygroma, i was given no hope of the baby suviving and so to be kind to the baby i had a termination, which was the most difficult and soul destroying thing i have ever done. but now i am so in shock that the chromosomes were normal. I am so angry with the consultant as at the time when they found the cystic hygroma and the heart defect on the scan it didnt even enter my head to have a termination but after speeking to the consultant she went on about possible syndroms, downs, edwards, turners and then asked me what i wanted to do and that she would have no problems in doing a d&c for me even though i was 13 weeks but i had to decide that day b4 it was too late to have one, so i trusted her and signed the concent form, i thought to myself she wouldnt have mentioned a termination if she didnt think it was the right thing, but on the way out i asked her if she thought i was doing the right thing and she said yes she didnt think the baby would survive and it looks like massive chromosome problems.
I am sorry for going on a bit here but i really had to get all this out, none of my questions can be answered till i see her in six weeks time.