## March 2018 Mummies Tri 1 Thread ##

[xMillie]

Aw, it's so long to wait!


Had to nip out and hubby was driving and someone just hit into the front of our car so scary
Damage to the car but not us thankfully

Lol ... Its easy to not tell my family because i live away from all of them so they only see me when i come home every so many months

Omg i hope that you & your hubby are both ok thats terrible & the last thing that you need, Its been terrible rain here today so me & my little james have been having cuddles, Playing & watching tv together X

My family are pretty far away as well!
Both our parents already know but they knew I was waiting for more treatment so we just told them we didn't need to go in for that.. I'll be 11weeks when we visit home next and if all looks okay at an early scan we may just tell my brother and hubs sister then too!

Yes both fine thankfully, a little shook up to begin with but just came straight home and chilled on the sofa while hubby dealt with police and insurance.

That sounds like a perfect day xx

 

[Sk8erzeh]

I don't know how to feel at the moment. It's my brother in law's birthday today and his wife is having a surprise bbq for him. I just spoke to her this morning about an unrelated matter and she didn't mention it at all. My OH went round to see his brother today to wish him a happy birthday (they live 5 mins away) and told me he's having a barbecue. I asked him why he didn't stay and he said "If they can't invite you then what's the point of me going coz you are my family." These people have been trying to split us up for a while but my OH saw right through that and no longer goes there unless he has to. I'm being blamed for their now strained relationship
I'm not upset about not being invited, I'm just wondering how long all this will go on for
That's my little rant over. How's everyone?

 

[xMillie]

Sk8erzeh, That's awful. I do hope it won't go on forever. Did they know you were ttc?


Ughhh just realised I was eating out of date yoghurt, worried me for a second but it sounds like it won't hurt me.
Thought it tasted abit sour so checked the date and it went out yesterday! Annoyed only got it a couple of days ago!
Need to find something else for breakfast now!

 

[EB86]

I completely caved and fell into the trap of obsessive testing! Why do we do that?

I now am 99% positive that I'm not pregnant. ��

I took 3 very definite positive tests on Friday, 2 pink dye tests and 1 Superdrug digital test. One was with FMU on Friday but the stronger two positives (including the digital) were around 6.30pm.

Since tested again (oops!) and only getting very definite negatives. �� Used a FRER and another Superdrug digital and definite BFNs. Tried FMU & afternoon/evening.

So, I think I've been unlucky and had 3 false positives. Pretty gutted as really wanted this and was so excited when I got so many positives on Friday.

I now don't want to test again. AF still 7 days overdue, I thought I was experiencing pregnancy symptoms but now wondering if it's just in my head. I've been getting light nauseau, bloating, a pulling/cramping in my stomach, rock hard nipples, and a CM different to what I'd say is my norm.

I've read a few bits about chemical pregnancies. Just can't believe it was a definite digital positive Friday night and a definite BFN Saturday morning.

Going to contact GP if no AF by midweek. Feeling disappointed now and a little hopeless. It's so annoying we get our hopes up with a very definite BFP for it all to be wrong.

�� Just had to rant. Sorry.

Xxxx

 

[Loopylou1980]

I completely caved and fell into the trap of obsessive testing! Why do we do that?

I now am 99% positive that I'm not pregnant. ��

I took 3 very definite positive tests on Friday, 2 pink dye tests and 1 Superdrug digital test. One was with FMU on Friday but the stronger two positives (including the digital) were around 6.30pm.

Since tested again (oops!) and only getting very definite negatives. �� Used a FRER and another Superdrug digital and definite BFNs. Tried FMU & afternoon/evening.

So, I think I've been unlucky and had 3 false positives. Pretty gutted as really wanted this and was so excited when I got so many positives on Friday.

I now don't want to test again. AF still 7 days overdue, I thought I was experiencing pregnancy symptoms but now wondering if it's just in my head. I've been getting light nauseau, bloating, a pulling/cramping in my stomach, rock hard nipples, and a CM different to what I'd say is my norm.

I've read a few bits about chemical pregnancies. Just can't believe it was a definite digital positive Friday night and a definite BFN Saturday morning.

Going to contact GP if no AF by midweek. Feeling disappointed now and a little hopeless. It's so annoying we get our hopes up with a very definite BFP for it all to be wrong.

�� Just had to rant. Sorry.

Xxxx

Sorry to hear this, How confusing, I have heard of false positives before & it doesn't always mean an early loss either.

If you go to your doctors & tell them all of the above they should do a blood test for you to check for pregnancy this will be the most reliable for you X

 

[Loopylou1980]

I don't know how to feel at the moment. It's my brother in law's birthday today and his wife is having a surprise bbq for him. I just spoke to her this morning about an unrelated matter and she didn't mention it at all. My OH went round to see his brother today to wish him a happy birthday (they live 5 mins away) and told me he's having a barbecue. I asked him why he didn't stay and he said "If they can't invite you then what's the point of me going coz you are my family." These people have been trying to split us up for a while but my OH saw right through that and no longer goes there unless he has to. I'm being blamed for their now strained relationship
I'm not upset about not being invited, I'm just wondering how long all this will go on for
That's my little rant over. How's everyone?

How horrible is that ? I`am sorry but honestly you are better off out of it if you ask me, If i was treated like that i wouldn't want anything to do with people like that. I personally would never treat anybody like that myself.
Dont let it get you down or upset you just get on with your life, Never show that you are bothered because that will bother them more if they know they are not getting to you X

 

[Sk8erzeh]

Thanks loopylou. Other than my OH, I don't have any family. I really thought this was my chance to be part of a family again. They are obviously not keen on me and my OH no longer goes there because of that. Never mind, he's my family and that's good enough for me

 

[Sk8erzeh]

I completely caved and fell into the trap of obsessive testing! Why do we do that?

I now am 99% positive that I'm not pregnant. ��

I took 3 very definite positive tests on Friday, 2 pink dye tests and 1 Superdrug digital test. One was with FMU on Friday but the stronger two positives (including the digital) were around 6.30pm.

Since tested again (oops!) and only getting very definite negatives. �� Used a FRER and another Superdrug digital and definite BFNs. Tried FMU & afternoon/evening.

So, I think I've been unlucky and had 3 false positives. Pretty gutted as really wanted this and was so excited when I got so many positives on Friday.

I now don't want to test again. AF still 7 days overdue, I thought I was experiencing pregnancy symptoms but now wondering if it's just in my head. I've been getting light nauseau, bloating, a pulling/cramping in my stomach, rock hard nipples, and a CM different to what I'd say is my norm.

I've read a few bits about chemical pregnancies. Just can't believe it was a definite digital positive Friday night and a definite BFN Saturday morning.

Going to contact GP if no AF by midweek. Feeling disappointed now and a little hopeless. It's so annoying we get our hopes up with a very definite BFP for it all to be wrong.

�� Just had to rant. Sorry.

Xxxx

Aww hun, so sorry you're going through this. I can't think of a reason why this could be happening but it's not over till AF arrives.

 

[Loopylou1980]

Thanks loopylou. Other than my OH, I don't have any family. I really thought this was my chance to be part of a family again. They are obviously not keen on me and my OH no longer goes there because of that. Never mind, he's my family and that's good enough for me

Sometimes you dont have to do anything to people for them to take a dislike to you it often comes from jealously.
Your future family will come from the one that you'll create with your OH, One that loves one another, Is kind to each other & has each others back, Not one that your OH has at the moment which doesn't sound very nice to me, That is not how family should be X

 

[xMillie]

I completely caved and fell into the trap of obsessive testing! Why do we do that?

I now am 99% positive that I'm not pregnant. ��

I took 3 very definite positive tests on Friday, 2 pink dye tests and 1 Superdrug digital test. One was with FMU on Friday but the stronger two positives (including the digital) were around 6.30pm.

Since tested again (oops!) and only getting very definite negatives. �� Used a FRER and another Superdrug digital and definite BFNs. Tried FMU & afternoon/evening.

So, I think I've been unlucky and had 3 false positives. Pretty gutted as really wanted this and was so excited when I got so many positives on Friday.

I now don't want to test again. AF still 7 days overdue, I thought I was experiencing pregnancy symptoms but now wondering if it's just in my head. I've been getting light nauseau, bloating, a pulling/cramping in my stomach, rock hard nipples, and a CM different to what I'd say is my norm.

I've read a few bits about chemical pregnancies. Just can't believe it was a definite digital positive Friday night and a definite BFN Saturday morning.

Going to contact GP if no AF by midweek. Feeling disappointed now and a little hopeless. It's so annoying we get our hopes up with a very definite BFP for it all to be wrong.

�� Just had to rant. Sorry.

Xxxx

I would check in with your doctor and have them do some tests xx


I had no pink spotting since Thursday morning and now it's back today
Really hope it's nothing

 

[lozza]

Hi ladies,

I hope everyone is doing well. We all seem to be experiencing similar things just now.

On Friday I had some brown discharge and then mild cramping. Almost like period cramping. The cramping continued until yesterday and I don't have it at all today. However today, I have a pressure in my pelvic area. It reminds me of when I was pregnant with my first and she was head down for ages.

Up until Thursday, I was having strong symptoms, nausea and sore boobs. Those have completely gone and I'm worried that I've had a mmc.

I'm 6 weeks today and am considering booking in for an early scan in the next few weeks.

I hope everything is ok, but can't help but worry.

 

[Haylian]

Hi everyone,

Very happy to be back here again, EDD 28th March.
I'm a massive worrier usually and it's strange that I feel so excited this time. I had a Miscarriage in 2012 and then had my beautiful daughter in 2013, I think I'm more excited for her as she'll think she's got a real life doll to look after haha. Looking forward to getting to know you all

 

[Ljd401]

Hi ladies,

I hope everyone is doing well. We all seem to be experiencing similar things just now.

On Friday I had some brown discharge and then mild cramping. Almost like period cramping. The cramping continued until yesterday and I don't have it at all today. However today, I have a pressure in my pelvic area. It reminds me of when I was pregnant with my first and she was head down for ages.

Up until Thursday, I was having strong symptoms, nausea and sore boobs. Those have completely gone and I'm worried that I've had a mmc.

I'm 6 weeks today and am considering booking in for an early scan in the next few weeks.

I hope everything is ok, but can't help but worry.

Oh bless you, how worrying for you. Is it worth you calling your doctor to explain and see what they say?
I'm 7 weeks and had been experiencing nausea since week 5 but the last four days nothing plus had some dull aches/cramps. It is a worry. I did read though that loss of symptoms doesn't always mean something is wrong so found that reassuring. Hope everything is ok for you xx

 

[Summertime]

Welcome to the thread Haylian, I've added your edd.

Hope everyone is doing well, I'm 6 weeks today. Great being away as last few days flown by and haven't even thought about doing anymore POAS.

We have been doing a lot of walking, 17,000 steps on Saturday and 23,000 yesterday and I am totally knackered. Also been having some cramps over weekend but no more spotting.

Having a nice chilled day before back to work tomorrow.

 

[Summertime]

Just reading some of posts over last couple of days, I don't think lack of symptoms is a cause for concern or some discharge. Obviously if you're bleeding heavily or having painful cramps you should definitely go to the gp.

Pregnancy is a minefield of worry but I'm really try to enjoy every second of it and whatever happens happens, my hubby showed his first slight sign of excitement this weekend and suggested a few names he likes!

He talked about the early scan but he wants to keep money for stuff we will need and also as looking at booking holiday for September so going to start being patient and wait for 12 weeks, only 6 weeks to wait!

 

[xMillie]

I called my doctors this morning again regarding more pink spotting yesterday which then turned into wow my vagina feels like its on fire. No joke.. I was thinking maybe it could be thrush from the antibiotics (because they're known for that..) and hoped they get me in today to have a look/test to just make sure it's nothing else but no instead he's sure it's thrush and just written a prescription to pick up of some canesten cream. So I hope he is right.. He said the hospital haven't dealt with the early scan request yet either.

Hmmm oh well midwife Thursday I'm sure she'll reassure me!

I don't think there is any link there today but it's so painful to check!!!
Fed up

 

[RaeRae90]

Hi Girls, just going to slide in! Got an EDD of 17th March! Really suffering with sickness and currently only tolerating fruit juice which doesn't help with feeling tired!
Hope the cream works for the thrush Millie, has your local hospital not got an early pregnancy unit that you could phone for advice, they might be more helpful?

 

[xMillie]

I'm not sure of their details yet
When I saw the midwife she said if I have any worries go to gp
Awaiting a letter for early scan, doctor referred after spotting and urine infection found
Seeing midwife on Thursday so I guess I can talk to her then if the cream doesn't seem to be helping

 

[Ljd401]

Hi everyone,

Very happy to be back here again, EDD 28th March.
I'm a massive worrier usually and it's strange that I feel so excited this time. I had a Miscarriage in 2012 and then had my beautiful daughter in 2013, I think I'm more excited for her as she'll think she's got a real life doll to look after haha. Looking forward to getting to know you all

Congratulations! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months xx

 

[Ljd401]

Hi Girls, just going to slide in! Got an EDD of 17th March! Really suffering with sickness and currently only tolerating fruit juice which doesn't help with feeling tired!
Hope the cream works for the thrush Millie, has your local hospital not got an early pregnancy unit that you could phone for advice, they might be more helpful?

Congratulations!!! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months.
The sickness and being off food is just horrid! Hope it passes soon.

Millie hope you're ok and that the cream helps. How horrible X