Tenshineko
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Iv got my '20 week scan' on monday at 9:30 and im already counting the seconds till i see baby again and find out the sex. Every one seems excited aswell but when i tell them we are going to find out the sex they say it would be disapointing and should be a surprise when its born (because giving birth and having my baby in my arms wont be over welming enough? )
Why dont people want to know? DH called his parents to remind them when the scan is and they said 'remember not to tell us what sex it is, we dont want to know till its born' How are we suposed to keep something like that quiet? At first it didnt bother me (just thought it was strange) but im quite upset now iv had time to think about it. Why cant they respect our decision and just find out when we do and let us get excited about our baby?
I had people at work shaking there heads and looking at me like im stupid because i want to know if its a boy or girl. Has anyone else had anything similar happen?
Why dont people want to know? DH called his parents to remind them when the scan is and they said 'remember not to tell us what sex it is, we dont want to know till its born' How are we suposed to keep something like that quiet? At first it didnt bother me (just thought it was strange) but im quite upset now iv had time to think about it. Why cant they respect our decision and just find out when we do and let us get excited about our baby?
I had people at work shaking there heads and looking at me like im stupid because i want to know if its a boy or girl. Has anyone else had anything similar happen?