cosmicgirl
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I'd love a cat x
Nat, tbh I think the best thing is obv to jus get the nets and see how amber is with baby. I totally understand and agree with you. I would never toss my cats out like u say the cats didn't ask for a baby and I'm sorry but I won't wait what may be 20 years for my cats to die before having a baby lol!
It is a myth and people say things about cats sitting on faces I've heard due to the milk smells oh and jealousy and then there was the one due to the heat of the baby its total nonsense, look at the people who grow up with dogs cats around them and they are totes fine.
You know amber and she will know baby is part of you theyr not daft and as long as you are prepared with the nets just see how she gets on! Like I said my two cats aren't going to be in our room or babys and will be kept an eye on but the best thing is just to take things as they come. She may be protective of the baby when comes orr scared of it or anything.
We are obviously smart not to leave baby and cat unattended so I doubt they would "harm" the baby xxxxx
It isn't a myth. Yes there are plenty of people who grew up with them and are fine but whos to say it won't happen? I'm sorry but if I had a cat and had to choose between the safety of my baby and the cat I would choose the baby every time.
I'm just overly paranoid about anything to do with baby being asleep, due to family medcal history. I think it's ok if people are comfortable with it, I personally am not. I don't mind cats and wouldn't mind one, but know I'd be forever watching it. x
I'm just overly paranoid about anything to do with baby being asleep, due to family medcal history. I think it's ok if people are comfortable with it, I personally am not. I don't mind cats and wouldn't mind one, but know I'd be forever watching it. x
I am sorry Em I realise that there are circumstances which make you personally very worried and concerned so please don't think I was being rude.
Also I have no intention of letting cat be anywhere near baby at night-time (or in the day-time if she doesn't want to be).
I'm not going to overthink it too much - baby will be here eventually and cat will have to deal with it. As long as she has somewhere peaceful to go and doesn't get in the baby things we'll be just fine
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