***June 2016 Mummies***

[BunnyN]

I’m over thinking so much that I don’t even want to go to my privet scan tomorrow as I’m so scared x

I dont blame you for being shaken up after what happened to your friend. unfortunately losses do happen but I think sometimes they stand out and we forget all the ladies who have normal, healthy pregnancies. Chances are everything will be fine. I dont think you are going to be able to get it out of your head untill you do the scan so it seems like it will be good to put your mind at ease.

 

[sjenkins1756]

Bunny I know your right! I cried a few times yesterday as she’s not just my friend she’s one of my best friends she was only 11 days ahead of me and I can’t stop thinking about her. But as my partner said I need to think me and the baby I know that sounds selfish L what us women go through!!! xx

 

[Blueclass]

Mines booked for Sunday but I'm terrified aswell. When I bend down I have a small pain/twinge. Not sure if it was there before maybe it's now coz I'm over thinking things. Iv got my booking in appointment tomorrow will speak to mw. I love this forum but some times I hate it because I read all of the sad losses we have had and then get paranoid.
Good luck tomorrow sjenkins1756 xx

 

[sjenkins1756]

Babe I feel the same! Everytime I get a pain and twinge I think the worst... just have to keep happy and calm xxx

 

[Redhead]

Sorry to hear of your bad news Lyndseyb. If you need anyone to talk to I'm going through the same thing right now feel free to message me. Sending love xxx

 

[LyndseyB]

Thank you for the messages and thoughts, they are much appreciated.
I hope your scan goes well sjenkins and I'm sure it will, try not to worry before then..which is always easier said than done, I know.

Thank you redhead, I have sent you a message and I hope you are keeping as well as can be expected xx

 

[kanga86]

Feeling very sorry for myself tonight, feel like I need to camp out by the toilet as I feel so sick fed up of feeling so ill even on anti sickness meds. Have no idea how I'm meant to return to work next week! Sorry for the moany post especially with all the bad news lately xx

 

[Overthemoon2]

So sorry Lyndsey. Wishing you lots of luck for your future hunny. xx

 

[walkergirl]

So sorry to hear your news Lindsey, hope its all over as quickly as possible for you xx

 

[Blueclass]

As a first timer I am getting some aches twinges near my hips. It's a bit like iv done a few sit ups especially when I exhale or cough. Is this normal? I keep telling myself maybe it's my uturs expanding but to be honest I have no bloody idea. Xx

 

[millielaura]

I have that too Blueclass. I assumed it was from lifting stuff at work before I found out lol! But could defo be stretching xxx

 

[Siskin]

So sorry, Lyndsey B. I remember you joining the site about the time I did and because of that it kind of seemed like we were in the same boat - it was a shock to read your news.

I have dithered about whether or not to get a private scan ahead of my NHS one (at 12+6) and I have decided I need to do it, as all my symptoms have vanished in the last few days and I don't think I could bear to sit it out for 3 weeks and then discover that my pregnancy had actually ended some time ago.

 

[Blueclass]

That's my thought exactly. I'd rather know now so I could prepare my self. If I just started bleeding I'd panic and some people have said they have had to wait days for an appointment. I couldn't do that thinking is it fine is it not. Obviously I hope my baby is still there growing but as iv not really had any symptoms and at 9+4 I don't think my boobs have got bigger or anything
I think getting a private scan if your worried is definitely a good idea mines Sunday. I got my booking in today so will talk to mw about my concerns xx

 

[sjenkins1756]

I’ve spoken to my partner and I won’t be going to my privet scan as it’s made me so nervous and thought of going has scared me. Week Monday will be my scan I will wait till then…..Hope everyone is having a good morning xxxx

 

[Blueclass]

Good afternoon ladies. I had my booking in appointment today it went well. I'm down as low risk tho I do have one appointment with the consultant but if that is ok then I will be mw lead. It also means I can go to a birthing centre and have a water birth if it's available. I had some bloods done but need to go back Monday to have the downs blood test as I'm not 10 weeks till tomorrow and you have to be over 10 weeks. Xx

 

[kanga86]

Sjenkins sorry your so scared about your private scan and have cancelled it. It really is a scary time in tri 1 and as much as we look forward to the scans they are also very scary as they can tell you so much. I hope your anxiety lessens ready for your 12 week scan.

Glad your booking in appt went well blueclass and that you are low risk so that you have more flexibility birth wise. I wish I could chose the birth centre but my mw was reluctant due to my previous births, an emergency section and then a retained placenta. I'm quite gutted as the birth centre is just 5mins away and the hospital about 35mins.

We have our downs blood test at our 12wk scan, think they do it after if I remember correctly. Still no date for me in the post, I'm 11+1wks today. Think I may phone mw tomorrow if nothing in the post tomorrow xx

 

[BabyMaker]

LyndseyB my heart breaks for you im so so sorry. Life is cruel sometimes and its extra painful when we dont understand why these things happen. Take care of yourself and allow yourself all the time you need to get thru this. I hope you have lots of support around you. Big hugs xxx

 

[BabyMaker]

Blueclass, great news you are low risk. I had my booking-in yesterday and im low risk too and will be mw led. Last time i was consultant led which was a pain in the a*se! I had depression many years ago which they decided to keep a close eye on even tho i was fine. I had to have lots of extra appointments and each appt i had to bring up the reasons for my depresssion. It was pointless as it was a time in my life i wanted to forget - not bring up for months! Anywho, none of that this time and i'll be able to give birth at the birthing centre

Kanga, sorry you're still rough seems mine is slowly easing and i hope yours does too.

Xxx

 

[Eryinera]

Geez. I had depression in my past with my son I was mw led I don't think I would be able to do consult led I font know if I could even pinpoint the causes that sounds awful. Just shows how shitty they are with mental health problems..

 

[BabyMaker]

I know! It was all a waste of time. And on top of everything, i saw different consultants and had to go thru my history all over again each time i saw someone new. Pain!
How are you Eryinera? Any answers to your heart issue? Xx