Had a horrible crying breakdown today. All because OH told his twin brother about the pregnancy. I hysterically cried because someone knows and now if I lose the baby someone will know. Oh so silly x
I know exactly how feel about this! My OH told his mum today! We both agreed to wait a few more weeks just to make sure everything was definitely okay.. I am so angry about it!
I guess they are just over excited. Its mine and my partners first baby so its hard to know who to tell and when. So dont feel silly your not the only one! Keep positive
When you've agreed, it's downright fucking disrespectful and rude to take that moment away from you.
I get the Twin thing JemRose, but again, if you'd decided together not to say anything, it's just not right.
I have zero tolerance for this sort of thing. When I first fell pregnant, we agreed to keep it to ourselves. I broke down completely on the phone to my mum one day as I already knew I was probably losing it. She was so worried, not for one second believing my excuse, that her and my dad drove up that night to see me. As soon as Dan got home, they arrived, he couldn't believe I hadn't told them but said it made him feel like my number one to wait for him and share it with him...as he said, by the point, it was not a happy thing to share and he didn't think I should have to do it alone.
JemRose...as a side note, your brother-in-law knows now so you can't take it back...try to see the positive...you have someone in your court until you tell everyone else. It's really good to be able to have another person who knows. I understand your fears, but if the worst did happen, trust me, the extra support can be the difference in coping and especially for your oh. Men find this stuff really difficult, so it'll be nice that he has his twin to lean on, good ro bad.
But, like I said, I'd be incandescent.
