It's all over for me

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  1. Sally+Baby

    Sally+Baby Well-Known Member

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    My baby girl is gone. I started bleeding very heavily during the night, I went to the midwife first thing this morning and she couldn't find a heartbeat, they sent me for an emergency scan...which confirmed she was no longer alive :cry: :cry: :cry: They can't induce me until tomorrow morning for some reason....... :cry:

    I'm so devestated. I don't know how I can live wihout her.....i love her so much :cry:
     
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    mary70 Well-Known Member

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    omg hun i just dont know what to say other than i am so sorry :hug:
     
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    :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

    I am so so sorry to hear this. Don't really know what else to say, just wanted to give you these :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  4. Sally+Baby

    Sally+Baby Well-Known Member

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    Thank you :cry:

    Why can't they induce me yet? Don't they have any idea what its like for me right now :cry: :cry: :cry:
     
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    mary70 Well-Known Member

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    i cant imagine what u are going through hun and wouldnt even say i could, have u asked them y, maybe go back and insist hun whats the worse they can say, its disgusting treating u in this way :hug:
     
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    I'm so sorry hun :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
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    i am so sorry hun i dont know what to say
    thinking of you :hug: :hug: :hug:
    manda xx
     
  8. Sally+Baby

    Sally+Baby Well-Known Member

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    I phoned the hospital...The reason they can't induce me tonight is basically because they're too busy!!! Can you believe that? :cry:
    They also said that something should of been picked up at the scan

    Thank you everyone for your thoughts. We are both devestated, I don't know how we can go on...
     
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    :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
    Im so sorry hun....i dont know what else to say
     
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    lozzi Well-Known Member

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    Oh, gosh hun im so sorry to hear ur news :hug: :hug:
     
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    I'm so sorry hun :hug:
     
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    xJodieLoux Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry to hear this :hug:
     
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    oh no thats terrible, im so sorry, i cant imagine how you must be feeling :(
     
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    Just want to add my :hug:

    I am heartbroken for you, I really am!

    :cry:
     
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    charlie84 Well-Known Member

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    :hug: :hug: :hug: I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and your OH. :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  16. Sally+Baby

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    Thank you everyone so much.

    I'm going to the hospital tomorrow morning, 7am. I have no idea what they're going to do. C section or natural birth...Ive got no idea :cry: I want to know whats happened to my little girl :cry:
     
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    Suzie and Faith Well-Known Member

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    I don't think there's anything I or anyone else can say to make it better. I'm heartbroken for you.
    I'm here if you need anything

    :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
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    Sally I'm so sorry to hear and will be thinking of you and your OH tomorrow. :hug:
     
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    i'm so so sorry hun, my hearts breaking for you and your husband :cry:

    things like this are so unfair, you don't deserve it :(

    please take care of yourself at this hard time :hug:
     
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    Im so sorry hun :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
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