My baby girl passed away last night *Born 27th December*

Discussion in 'Coping with Miscarriage & Loss' started by Sally+Baby, Dec 26, 2007.

  1. Sally+Baby

    Sally+Baby Well-Known Member

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    Hi everyone

    Thought it might be more appropriate to post this over here now.
    My baby girl, Ella, died last night. I was 21+4. I started to bleed very heavily during the night, and I hadn't felt her move at all.
    I went to my midwife first thing this morning, and she couldn't find her heartbeat so she sent me for an emergency scan - the confirmed she had become and angel :cry:

    They are going to enduce me tomorrow morning at 7am, frankly the way I've been treated by the hospital is terrible, I've not got a clue what is going to happen tomorrow, and I don't even know whats happened to my princess :cry:

    I don't think it's sunk in yet really, I just keep crying and crying, so does my OH. I can't believe my little baby girl has gone :cry: Why me?
     
  2. kazlin

    kazlin Well-Known Member

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    Sweetheart, I don't really know what to say, but want to give you a huge (((HUG))). I am so very very sorry :cry:
     
  3. charli

    charli Well-Known Member

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    oh hunny im so sorry to here this my heart is with u .
    i hope the hospital treat u better tomo take care pm me if u need to chat xxxx :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  4. Krystal

    Krystal Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry to hear this :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  5. Steelgoddess

    Steelgoddess Well-Known Member

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    :cry: :cry: :cry: Im so so sorry, im loss for words except you are in my thoughts.

    :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  6. A&J

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  7. Sally+Baby

    Sally+Baby Well-Known Member

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    Thank you everyone for your kind words :cry:
    She was so special to us, I don't know what I'm going to do without her :(

    I'm dreading tomorrow. What should I take with me? Do I need clothes for Ella? Even though they'll be huge on her...Or will the hospital have some for her?

    My mind is all over the place at the moment. I keep thinking I've done something to hurt her :cry:
     
  8. mary70

    mary70 Well-Known Member

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    the hospital should have cloths for her hun but if there is something special you want to take then i would hun
     
  9. trigger

    trigger Well-Known Member

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    Oh my gosh hon, that is just awful awful news. I am so sorry for you. Please don't think that you are in anyway responsible though this is NOT your fault at all.
    I will be thinking of you tomorrow.
    :hug:
     
  10. jayla's mummy

    jayla's mummy Well-Known Member

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    hun im so sorry to hear that, my heart goes out to u
    :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  11. mummykay

    mummykay Well-Known Member

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    Im so so so sorry for ur loss :cry: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  12. Tori

    Tori Well-Known Member

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    aww hunni, im so sorry :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  13. MissSara

    MissSara Well-Known Member

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    I don't think there is any words i can say to take away yours and OH pain and upset, but i am truly sorry for your loss and my thoughts are with you and your family. :hug: x x x
     
  14. sarah113

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    Im so sorry hun, no words can help. Sending huge hugs to you :hug: :hug:
     
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    x Naomi x Well-Known Member

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    my thoughts are with you and your family

    Sleep tight little baby Ella xxx

    :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  17. Petra

    Petra Well-Known Member

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    :cry: :cry: oh no !!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so sorry for your loss. What a terrrible news. :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  18. CharlieOne

    CharlieOne Well-Known Member

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    Sweetheart i am so sorry to hear of you lost :cry: I do hope you get treated better tomorrow, my thoughts are with you and your OH...... :hug:
     
  19. Squiglet

    Squiglet Well-Known Member

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    I just wanted to give you some of these :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
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    tracey 2 Well-Known Member

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    Oh hun

    i am so so sorry to read this my hearthas just sunk and im crying for you i know the pain your feeling i really do.

    i lost my little girl chloe recently at 22weeks and i cant bear to think someone else going through that pain, im so sorry

    anytime you ever want to talk or have any questions or just need a shoulder then please PM me anytime you ever need to i really mean that i am here for you ever step of the way.

    thinking of you and your family at this sad time and sending so much love

    :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     

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