Armageddon
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Hi everyone, I’m going to be a dad soon but my baby isn’t mine. However, there is a twist lately and my girlfriend and I are so confused now, and I will like to seek everyone’s advice and opinion on this matter.
My girlfriend broke up with me in September last year and we got back together 3 months later. A month later, she admitted to me she was pregnant but the baby isn’t mine. I was devastated as I planned to have a future with her and her baby ruin my plan and the future I plan to have with her. I was filled with so much anguish because as much as I love her, I couldn’t bear the thought of raising another man’s child, especially the man she dumped me for. Her ex refused to take responsibility for the baby because he doesn’t believe the baby is his, but mine. How ironic. Every time I see her stomach/her baby, he will remind me of her ex and the hurt she put me through. We agreed to take a 2 week break from each other to think through about our future and she would not blame me if I decide to leave her as she doesn’t want to break my life.
During that 2 weeks, I think of her every day and I didn’t know what to do. On one hand, I decide to raise her baby as my own but on the other hand, I was so worried what if her ex comes back to her and when the baby grows up, he will acknowledge her ex as the father. After all, he is the biological father so there is nothing I can do. After careful consideration, I decided to raise her baby as my own and be the father of the baby. What truly makes a father is how you raised up the child and be there for him through every single step of his journey, and not who contribute the sperm.
Fast forward 4 months in April, on 23rd April to be exact, the doctor told her that she was 29 weeks and 4 days pregnant. That’s 207 days ago and 207 days ago, it was just a week after our break-up and she told me she didn’t move in with her ex yet. This gives me hope that her baby could be mine after all and this would be my dream and this is what I kept wishing for every single day during her pregnancy.
What I will like to know is based on my story and the timeline of the event, what do you all think?
I will also like to know when is a woman’s most fertile period? Is it before or after your period? Because I remember 2 weeks before we had unprotected sex, she said her period just ended and during the sex, I forgot to pull out.
How long does it take for a fetus to form?
Is her baby mine or her ex?
I’m so confused and nervous.
Here's a picture of her 7 months pregnant
My girlfriend broke up with me in September last year and we got back together 3 months later. A month later, she admitted to me she was pregnant but the baby isn’t mine. I was devastated as I planned to have a future with her and her baby ruin my plan and the future I plan to have with her. I was filled with so much anguish because as much as I love her, I couldn’t bear the thought of raising another man’s child, especially the man she dumped me for. Her ex refused to take responsibility for the baby because he doesn’t believe the baby is his, but mine. How ironic. Every time I see her stomach/her baby, he will remind me of her ex and the hurt she put me through. We agreed to take a 2 week break from each other to think through about our future and she would not blame me if I decide to leave her as she doesn’t want to break my life.
During that 2 weeks, I think of her every day and I didn’t know what to do. On one hand, I decide to raise her baby as my own but on the other hand, I was so worried what if her ex comes back to her and when the baby grows up, he will acknowledge her ex as the father. After all, he is the biological father so there is nothing I can do. After careful consideration, I decided to raise her baby as my own and be the father of the baby. What truly makes a father is how you raised up the child and be there for him through every single step of his journey, and not who contribute the sperm.
Fast forward 4 months in April, on 23rd April to be exact, the doctor told her that she was 29 weeks and 4 days pregnant. That’s 207 days ago and 207 days ago, it was just a week after our break-up and she told me she didn’t move in with her ex yet. This gives me hope that her baby could be mine after all and this would be my dream and this is what I kept wishing for every single day during her pregnancy.
What I will like to know is based on my story and the timeline of the event, what do you all think?
I will also like to know when is a woman’s most fertile period? Is it before or after your period? Because I remember 2 weeks before we had unprotected sex, she said her period just ended and during the sex, I forgot to pull out.
How long does it take for a fetus to form?
Is her baby mine or her ex?
I’m so confused and nervous.
Here's a picture of her 7 months pregnant
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