i dont even know if i should be here this month :/

[deedee84]

Hellooooo my fellow 2wwers!

I have plonked my bum here for a while...the reasoning behind this...even though i havent yet had af after mc, i had ovulation pains last week and the usual ovulation cm that comes with it! I have no idea when af is due either so its deffo a waiting game seen as though we have bded loads as well... i'm not holding out any hope for a BFP this month as it probably wont happen with not having af after mc yet but i guess its not totally impossible! So just going to see what happens in the next few weeks and take it from there! xx

 

[mrsblue]

anything is possible!! and aren't you extra fertile after a mc? xx

 

[Sunbeam638]

Deedee I am soooo glad you put this post on I am in the same boat and I'm now on a 3ww apparently if your not sure when AF is due then 3ww after you have done the deed!

I'm nervous but also there is no risk associated to pg without period straight after mc checked with doc it's mainly just to date when you conceived. I had metallic taste yesterday and ov pains this week so who knows but fx for us xxx

 

[deedee84]

yeah mrsblue you are supposed to be extra fertile after mc! so glad ur here wi me sunbeam we should start a new thread for 3wwers pmsl :O its just annoying not knowing whats happening with our bodies i guess but i shall have my fingers crossed for both of us hopefully 2nd time lucky! least we can get each other thru this extended 2ww lol x

 

[Emilyandbump]

It totally possible! I had a mc before i got pregnant with my first son, and i hadnt had af, and 3 weeks after mc i was pregnant again! fx for you all xxxx

 

[deedee84]

thanks emilyandbump i hope this is the case for us xx

 

[Sunbeam638]

Its good we are in the same boat. I'm counting the days now, trying not to be too hopeful but I know I am deep down. Fingers and toes crossed! XxX

 

[deedee84]

deffo is hun i'm trying not to think about things too much but its so hard when u get the odd symptom etc...for instance at the beginning of this week i had 3 days solid of waking up feeling queasy, thats gone now and i dont have any symptoms! just gonna try not to get my hopes up! the cm has gone now so i deffo think i ov'd :/ hmmm! only time will tell xx

 

[Sunbeam638]

I don't know for sure but I'm pretty sure I ov'd based on the discharge. Yeaterday metallux taste and Today I have dull achey back pain...my last AF was feb so I'm not sure how far in to a cycle ladies get achey backs?

Maybe it's all in my head but something is going on because I have been getting slight pains since Monday!xxx

 

[deedee84]

yeah i am going on cm and ov pains tbh! not sure on how far into cycle re achy backs etc tho lol! i think u know your own body dont ya! xx

 

[Sunbeam638]

I think either way if AF arrives that tells me body has returned to normal and is working which will be a good sign and if BFP then....!

If neither AF arrives and BFN then I will be hacked off!xxx

 

[deedee84]

haha same here hun! i was hoping af would be here already over 4 weeks later but nope but i have heard it can take up to 7 weeks anyways so what will be will be...af or BFP would be fine with me but like you said if no af and BFN then its going to stress me out lots! x

 

[Sunbeam638]

The only thing that is giving me hope of AF or dare I say it BFP is things they have been going on since Monday.

After I mc'd once that had passed everything went ok no pain just dark old blood but I had nothing before Monday for at least a week so something is going on...well here is to our 3ww!

Xxx

 

[deedee84]

aww well good luck hun keep me posted as i will you lol at 3ww bleeding hell as if the 2ww's werent bad enough xx

 

[Sunbeam638]

I know! I'm going on hols back on the sat 8th. The more I think about it the more it's AF or body correcting itself but its distracting me from the mc which is something I needed as I was starting to get sad again. 3ww countdown!!!

If anyone has success stories about confirming after mc before their AF please let us know positive stories help loads!xx

 

[deedee84]

aww enjoy your hols hun u lucky thing hee hee Oooh and yes re positive stories too i'd like to hear some also xx

 

[MissJuly10]

Hope you get answers soon, it's awful being stuck in limbo. Obviously hope you get a BFP rather than AF though lol. x

 

[deedee84]

aww thnx missjuly and yes i am hating this limbo....more than any 2ww lol x

 

[MissJuly10]

Don't blame you hun. I hate being stuck in limbo - mine's not the 2ww though, not sure I've ever been in one - I'm currently CD95 and no sign of AF at all.

x

 

[deedee84]

OMG missjuly that is an extremely looooong cycle i feel for you xx