How are all you new mummies doing?

[Kaedin]

In future if he doesn't have something he needs for Hayley, then I'll stop contact until he has the necessary items. I'm fed up providing most of the things she'll need.

He never texts to ask how she is, only when he wants to cause sh*t. He didn't ask how she got on with her jags ect. He's not interested, no idea why he wanted to plan a child if he was going to be like this. He gets Hayley from 4pm until 7pm on a Wednesday and noticed him outside before 4. He sat in the car for over 5 mins and only phoned me at 4pm on the dot to say he was here...if he phoned me at 5 to 4pm I would get hayley into her car seat so he'd actually get to see her by 4...it's so ridiculous its laughable.

 

[Kaedin]

I'm really hoping it's just a 24 hour thing too she's still fast on I can't tell u how glad I am I've got my angel care monitor tonight! Still keep checking bless her l!
I bloody hate men that don't want to pay 4 there kids my aunties ex husband signed over his business to his brother n all sites just to get out of paying her much it's like they think the money is for the woman! Don't they realise it's only the children that miss out he really is being a knob about everything I really feel 4 u chick xxxx

Hope she feels better real soon! xx

That's crazy! If I don't spend money on Hayley I'll just keep it for the next month, and any extra will be carried over. He needs to remember once she's at school ect it will be expensive for uniforms, trips and everything else so £32 is nothing!

 

[Jojo84]

One year ago today was my 12weel scan and the day I announced it

I remember it clearly, I posted 2 scan pics on fb and said march was going to be a busy monj and loads of people asked
Me If it was twins lol

 

[douglasxox]

I was dying to have twins lol! I'm not so sure I feel that way now

 

[Jojo84]

Lol I never wanted twins. I know a girl who had twins.... It was not pretty lol

What freaks me out more is if I had twins next time... Ouch lol

A girl on my fb has triplets. She fainted when they told her - she says her house is like outnumbered but with three of the little girl asking why every three and a half minutes for all eternity lol

 

[douglasxox]

My reasoning was me and OH weren't even supposed to have one baby, and I know the chance of another are next to none even though I'd love another. So I figured if we had two in the one go it'd save me a lot of bother lol!

 

[Jojo84]

Yeah I used to feel that way before I met my colleague who had twins - often I wonder if she was vile before the twins or if twins did that to her

 

[Toria111]

One of my good friends had twins a few months ago after 7 years of IVF. Boy and a girl. Shes so glad her parents are retired and live round the corner. No way I'd cope!

 

[douglasxox]

I remember going for the 12 week scan and seeing the one baby and the woman saying 'there's only one' and poor OH going 'bloody hell Id never even thought of that' little did he know what was going on in my mind, ha!

 

[mrs_b_x]

My reasoning was me and OH weren't even supposed to have one baby, and I know the chance of another are next to none even though I'd love another. So I figured if we had two in the one go it'd save me a lot of bother lol!

My friend has severe pcos and was told as a teen shed never have kids. She was on the pill for the hormones and went for a blood test which was pretty routine for her, when she got called in to discuss the results she didn't really think much of it but she was pregnant! She'd only been with her now husband for 4 months but of course there was no question she would keep the baby. As soon as baby was born and shed recovered they started to try again, 5 years and a couple of losses they now have two beautiful children! So you never know xx

 

[douglasxox]

I'm so fortunate in that my reasons aren't due to any problems TTC, but the fact my OH does not want any more kids. He has two girls already and he was never having anymore but we agreed to have one together, Ruri came out with a willy and really scuppered any other chances I have as now OH has his boy lol. I would absolutely love another baby but I don't see it

 

[mrs_b_x]

Ooohh sorry! Atleast it's an option physically then for you he might come round! Nothing better than a daughter for a daddy to swoon over xx

 

[douglasxox]

That's the exact approach I'm taking - every time I drop into conversation I just get 'that look' and a disapproving noise lol! A girl can dream!

 

[Toria111]

I didn't want any kids, and oh already had a daughter so he wasn't bothered about more either. Yet her we are with 4 kids!Lol.

 

[douglasxox]

My OH just goes on about his age, I keep trying to tell him a lot of people don't start their families until they are in their 40s now but he's not having any of it! My motto is he won't marry me, he owes me another baby!!

 

[Pumpkin9]

My parents were 40 & 45 when they had me (apparently I was a happy accident!) I'm an only child too. I never noticed that they were older so age has nothing to do with it lol!

 

[Jojo84]

Went to see hv today and she says he's not put on enough weight... He looks fine to me and he's healthy enough - I can't feed him any more than he's getting

 

[hayes]

Wat does he weigh jojo? I'm sure he is fine they do like to worry people. Wat did the hv say to do?

Michelle.x

 

[Jojo84]

He weighs 15lbs5oz

I don't think it's that bad!

They said feed him more milk but he already has about 35oz a day and I feed him three times a day but he doesn't sleeping during he day and is always on the move... Or tries to be lol

On another note like stole a spoon from the pub lol no idea how or when but I feel awful lol

 

[hayes]

Sounds a good weight to me, Harry is over 7 months n still only 16lb sumthing he is small but I know hes fine n healthy. I wouldn't worry to much 3meals a day n that many ozs he will b just fine.

As fir the spoon hahaha that really made me laugh bless him. I wouldnt feel guilty they won't prob notice.

Michelle.x