How are all you new mummies doing?

[hayes]

I cant wait to try again I'm thinking if it takes as Kong as last time I might aswell fun off the pill after my hol in Nov n then just see wat happens won't try but won't prevent will try properly next summer if it hasn't happened on its own by then!! Can't wait already.

Michelle.x

 

[Jojo84]

I cant wait to try again I'm thinking if it takes as Kong as last time I might aswell fun off the pill after my hol in Nov n then just see wat happens won't try but won't prevent will try properly next summer if it hasn't happened on its own by then!! Can't wait already.

Michelle.x

i want kids close together - we were planning on trying after xmas - we hit jackpot on the first month of propper trying, we started on may 11th but that was right at the end of my ovulation and actually i think we mnissed it... then we found out we were pregnant on 27th june.

theres 22 months between me and my bro and i think thats a perfect gap but 14 is a bit sharp for us but im sure if it does happen we'll be excited - gotta say going back to woerk in october and on ly needing to work 6 months would be awesome lol

 

[hayes]

Yea that does sound good my only worry is starting my childminding business with ny friend end of the yr or very beginning of next n don't want to b a pain but if I leave it to long my endo will cum back n doubt want to risk not being able to have another. I always think there is never a right time just gotta go for it n hope we r lucky n get to have another little miracle. Their is 2yrs between me n sis n 22months between me n bro aswell.

Michelle.x

 

[Jojo84]

My mum and dad tried for 6 years to conceive my brother then when he was a year old they bought they should start trying for another because they didn't want a huge gap then bam 10 months later along I came lol it took hem 6 weeks the 2nd time!

 

[Toria111]

My sister tried for 2 years for her first, then fell pregnant first try with the second.

 

[StaceyRainbow]

I'm bricking it now after saying I wanted to try again soon OH initiated dtd the other day then after working out when I ovulate it said 16-21st aug we dtd the 15th I've been getting weird pains where my ovaries etc are and hoping it's just ovulation as if I fell pregnant now I'd be due beginning of May and I'm at a wedding in Cyprus then arghh! Worst month to fall if I am we've already paid most of it too.. Roll on the 3rd September.....

 

[StaceyRainbow]

If I was pregnant id be doing a repeat performance of my mam.. Give birth at the end of march then have another the following May! That would be weird ha

 

[hayes]

That's good to hear jojo n toria I hope it happens quick for us the whole ttc journey nearly broke me seeing bfn month after month just made me so sad. But having said that Harry was my miracle n if I'm just blessed with him then blessed I am indeed!!

Michelle.x

 

[Jojo84]

We are all very blessed to have our babies. My cousin has been told she and her husband may never carry to term - she's had 5 miscarriages - one was due the same week as Luke.

 

[Kaedin]

Hayley has been fighting sleep for over an hour, she's in her moses basket wriggling about making tonnes of noise and lifting and dropping her feet. She's exhausted so hope she falls asleep soon, and sleep through! Getting tired of these 4am wake up calls lol.

I have no idea now if I'll ever have a second child, always wanted at least 2 but don't know who will ever want to go near me now heh.

Called Child Maintenance today as still haven't heard anything from them, they called my ex who was "adamant" to them that I wanted to close the application as we've worked out a family arrangement, where he pays for her when he has her...I've already told him no to that, especially as I'm providing everythign she needs when she's with him Then he told them he would pay money into a "trust fund" lol. If he doesn't agree they'll just start taking it and it will cost him extra in collection fees, which is fine by me

 

[Natalilly1288]

Kaedin don't be silly u will find someone when the time is right someone who deserves you and Hayley xxxx

 

[StaceyRainbow]

Kaedin that's what Stanley was doing with his legs just before he started to roll and he was getting up through the night cos of it, she may be trying to master a new skill

And who wouldn't want you? A lot people have kids these days you will find the right person for you and Hayley ya never know you might end up with someone who already has kids too! I never saw myself ending up with someone who already had kids but I am! X

 

[T84]

Man my head hurts catching up on this convo!!

Aw kaedin, one day you will be laughing from up high watching your ex squirm!! A douche like that will never be truly happy.

Your poor cousin jojo!

Scarlett decided that 4am was feeding time this morning, but Tbf she didn't finish any of her bottles yest, left an oz or so in each so no wonder she was starving!

Had my back to work meeting which went well. Agreed to go back last week in oct 4 days a week, with a wed off. I haven't got a timetable yet which is crap tho cos I have no idea what I'm going back to. At least it's only 4 days in the week if it's a crap one tho. Please time, slow down til oct!! S had her 3rd jags too but she seems ok thank god. Made sure I was making her laugh while it was done too so she only yelped a wee bit.

 

[Mummybexee]

Kaedin everything happens for a reason - someone who deserves you will pop up when you least expect it - you'll see

Just washjng all oscars 6-9 clothes - he's officially in his sleep suits and vests now pretty much but everything else is still too big - even oscars 3-6 next trousers are abit baggy still :/

 

[Mummybexee]

Man my head hurts catching up on this convo!!

Aw kaedin, one day you will be laughing from up high watching your ex squirm!! A douche like that will never be truly happy.

Your poor cousin jojo!

Scarlett decided that 4am was feeding time this morning, but Tbf she didn't finish any of her bottles yest, left an oz or so in each so no wonder she was starving!

Had my back to work meeting which went well. Agreed to go back last week in oct 4 days a week, with a wed off. I haven't got a timetable yet which is crap tho cos I have no idea what I'm going back to. At least it's only 4 days in the week if it's a crap one tho. Please time, slow down til oct!! S had her 3rd jags too but she seems ok thank god. Made sure I was making her laugh while it was done too so she only yelped a wee bit.

So jealous your doing 4 days - am gutted I couldn't accept 4 days and loose 8 hours pay

 

[Pumpkin9]

I've washed all of Thomas's 6-9 stuff. He's wearing the vests, sleepsuits and trousers, it's just the tops and jumpers that are big

 

[Jojo84]

I'm sure you will find someone worthy of you, who knows you might meet a lovely fishy single dad at a playgroup or something who knows exactly what you've been through as a single parent. You'll find someone and you will be treated the way you deserve to be

Your ex is being a sick and trying to play the system by lying, which isn't a very good thing to have on record when it comes to custody if you ask me - how can he claim to care for his daughter when he's refusing to make sure she has financial security? He needs to grow up and face his responsibilities

 

[Jojo84]

Luke is in all his 6-9 and has been for about a week. Some of the waists are a bit big so he's for a little belt- the trousers are slightly long on his 6-12montj ones but he's got cool boy turn-ups lol

I always get sad when I pack his clothes away because of all the memories of him wearing them.

 

[Mummybexee]

^ I bought the same sleepsuits from next that he has in 3-6 - in 6-9 when I was at the sale - he's in them tonight - clutching onto him being little :/ haha

Question - probably for Toria - dr browns bottles - I'm on a size 3 teat - but size 4 is +6 months - oscars stopped finishing his bottles and wonder if it's worth going up a size ?

 

[Toria111]

Worth a try Bex. Emma's doing the same but I assumed it's because she's having solids. I might order some of those teats now. My older two never went past size 2 teats. But then they were on the normal milk.