How are all us single parents :)

[kayuki123]

Kayuki - I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through. I don't understand why people cheat. Why not man up & say "I'm unhappy, I want out" instead of all the sneaking around.
You & babyem both deserve so much more.

tell me about it hun. hes a low life scum bag and i also found out this morning that he took my lo to his bit on the sides place on weds and he told me he was going to his mums. im fuming! no wonder my lo's been clingy! xxx

 

[babyem]

Omg that's absolutely disgusting! Did he have her over night?!
Did he tell you this today then? I'm so sorry all this is happening, what an absolute test he really is!!!
I can imagine you are feeling so upset right know, I wish there was something I could do, or that I could come and give you a massive hug!!

I'm annoyed as fob has taken time of work to go away with his skank but not using any of it to see LO!! Pathetic excuse of a dad imo.

I love LO and that's all that matters!

How you doing HD? Xx

tapatalking x

 

[HopesDreams]

I'm good love. Thanks for asking. My situation is very different (& by the sounds of it, a lot less stressful too!) O's father isn't in the picture, doesn't want to be & hasn't been since I was 7 weeks pregnant. He's not a good sort.

 

[kayuki123]

Omg that's absolutely disgusting! Did he have her over night?!
Did he tell you this today then? I'm so sorry all this is happening, what an absolute test he really is!!!
I can imagine you are feeling so upset right know, I wish there was something I could do, or that I could come and give you a massive hug!!

I'm annoyed as fob has taken time of work to go away with his skank but not using any of it to see LO!! Pathetic excuse of a dad imo.

I love LO and that's all that matters!

How you doing HD? Xx

tapatalking x

yup he had her over night as i was poorly and needed sleep. im fuming! i found out as i asked my mil if she saw dd weds and she diddnt know he had had her over night.
know that feeling hun as he is also taking 4days off and having a sordid holiday with his skank! its upsetting as it would of been our 9 year anniversery together. babyem these so called fathers are really pathetic excuses of men!

 

[Loula]

I'm good love. Thanks for asking. My situation is very different (& by the sounds of it, a lot less stressful too!) O's father isn't in the picture, doesn't want to be & hasn't been since I was 7 weeks pregnant. He's not a good sort.

That was my situation x

 

[HopesDreams]

I'm good love. Thanks for asking. My situation is very different (& by the sounds of it, a lot less stressful too!) O's father isn't in the picture, doesn't want to be & hasn't been since I was 7 weeks pregnant. He's not a good sort.

That was my situation x

Did you initially have feelings of guilt & worry when you realised that your child could potentially grow up without a father figure? It took me quite a while to realise that I would be enough for O & having no father figure was better than having a father that has a negative impact on his life.

 

[Loula]

I do feel guilty and i do worry but as long as they get sone kind of male influence and you never kbow ypu may meet soneone who can be a realfther figure x

 

[HopesDreams]

I do feel guilty and i do worry but as long as they get sone kind of male influence and you never kbow ypu may meet soneone who can be a realfther figure x

I hope so Loula. My only concern is that I got so burnt the last time, I'm worried nobody will ever come up to the mark now that I have my baby.

 

[Loula]

I think we all go through that. The nxt guy for me has to be pretty damn special.
Theres no rush. Enjoy your littleone x

 

[babyem]

I agree, they're going to have to be amazing to be given my time. I want a partner, I'm fed up of being alone, I want all the fun and that that is involved too.

Hugs ladies! I'm so glad that there are other single mummies on PF, you can't understand what it's like unless you're one too. Xx

tapatalking x

 

[kayuki123]

so today i weighed my self... bearing in mind i joined slimming world on thurs but because of my 'dear husband' ( note the scarcasam...) droped the millionth bomb shell on me in 4 weeks ive lost 5lbs! dont recomend the heart break diet. but seems to be doing somthing good lol. im in a sod him mood tonight...oh and to top it off my fridge has packed up...great...:/ hope all you girlies are ok hugs xxx

 

[babyem]

Yeah, embrace it! F#$k him!!

I lost a stone after I split with FOB. Which was good but if I'd carried on I would've ended up ill

Hugs hun!! X



tapatalking x

 

[kayuki123]

Yeah, embrace it! F#$k him!!

I lost a stone after I split with FOB. Which was good but if I'd carried on I would've ended up ill

Hugs hun!! X



tapatalking x

after a all mighty row with him over the phone last night hes really opened my eyes to what hes really like. thing is i need to loose like 5-6 stone so more the merrier but when im in the right frame of mind and i have a working fridge im going back on it properly. ive found though my appitite has disserpeared. and my stomach has shrunk. as i cant eat much any more. xxx

 

[babyem]

Your doing so well

It's a start though! Gutted about the fridge! x

tapatalking x

 

[kayuki123]

Your doing so well

It's a start though! Gutted about the fridge! x

tapatalking x

thanks hun im gutted too as i love it too bits! it kept suff really well..i went shopping on thurs and all whats in it has now gone off luckily my skank of a husband is helping me out with it as i need it for phoebes bottles. and im starting to wean her properly soon too. :/ ah well it will get sorted soon xx

 

[HopesDreams]

Everyone having a good week? xxx

 

[kayuki123]

not really hope. but ill get there. how you doing hun? xx

 

[HopesDreams]

not really hope. but ill get there. how you doing hun? xx

Your situation is crap kayuki. You deserve so much more. Have you heard from him?

 

[babyem]

Hey, not too bad, would've been a good week had it not been for FOB being a nasty twat yesterday.

But I'm ok!

Hugs kayuki!! Xxx
tapatalking x

 

[kayuki123]

thankyou guys for the hugs...yeah i have heard from mainly when i txt him about my lo. or for his stuff! but he never txts me to ask how she is. yet he says he will do anything and provide for her. he makes me sick. as hes too busy with 'HER'i had counciling last night. i need it after what hes done to me. its made me realise i really am better off without him! his sordid holiday is coming up and im feeling out of sorts with it. as the last hot holiday he took was our honeymoon. :/ babyem. hugs to you. remind him to be nice as when hes nasty to you it effects you and then your lo.. hugs to you too hun xxx