hi..just an AF question! *updated*

[cassi]

aww hun congrats i know what shock you get from an unexpected pregnancy and that hits you never mind one not long after you have given birth...i think the break is a great idea .. take care and we are all here for you whatever decision you make

 

[rusks]

congrats fran i know its a shocker, thinking of you, hope all works out for the best xx

 

[KatysMummy]

Congratulations Fran, we are here for you xxxxx

 

[Tara & Liam]

hi hun if you ever need to talk all of us are here for you hun.

congratualations xx

 

[prickleyfairy]

Hi Fran,

Have only just seen this post-hope your feeling ok-take it easy, and see you back here soon.

Congrats Amy xx

 

[Daggers]

Fran I know you're not around at the mo but I too just saw your post for the first time, I'm so pleased for you - and selfishly jelouse as i'd love to get preggers again now . I'm sure it must have come as a major shock, congrats and hope this work out for you! Look forward to having you back on the forum hun.

 

[Jaidy]

Hey Fran, hope your having a nice relaxing break and that you are getting your head round things!

We miss you, thinking of you lots babes xxx

 

[Tina & Gabs]

Hi Fran

I've only just read this.

Hope you are ok hun and managing to get your head round this news.
I believe that everything happens for a reason.

We look forward to having you back.

Take care

 

[Duds]

OMG... saw your msg on my post in first tri & had to take a double take, iv only just managed to read them so sorry for the late response.
Your head must be all over the place, I really do understand how you must be feeling as I was the same as my pregnancy wasnt planned either & really didnt feel if i was ready for it & I have a 10 month old.
It will take time to sink in & dont be hard on yourself - its alot to deal with.
You take your time deciding what you want to do..

I also feel much more tired this time & the sickness has kicked in so feel pants but im sure it will all be worth it (have to keep telling myself)

Pm me if you need to chat.

x

 

[fran_23]

hey girlies, first of all can i say thank you all for your messages..i've read and took them all in, your support means a lot to me and you've all been so great!
sorry some people might not like what i'm going to say i dont like it myself to be honest. me and OH have talked and talked it out and we've decided not to keep this baby, it kills me to do it but its really not fair on Hayden, he needs my full love and attention, i wont be able to cope financially, physically or mentally with 2 babies so close in age.
i've been to see the doctor and been referred to a clinic, i think it only fair to tell you all the truth especially in light of all the phoneys we've had of late..i feel trust is waining!!
i didnt want to come back in a few weeks and lie to you..say i M/C or something because i wouldnt deserve any sympathy i'd get and its not in my nature to lie.
i'm sorry if my choice offends anybody and i'm only too aware of the senstive nature...but i'm finding it hard enough to cope right now so if u are opposed please just dont say anything...thanks!! xxx

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

awww hun
its ur choice and no one can say anything about that
if u ever need to tlk u know where i am

 

[mum2A&L]

Its your life and so your choice and no one elses.

take it easy we are all here to support each other when we need it!

 

[violet-glow]

**gives fran_23 a big squeeze**

I know how hard it probably was for you to come to that decision and I fully support you. Ive been through an abortion myself and no all the different emotions your probably feeling right now, if you need someone to talk to or have a rant with im always here [email protected]

Take care chick. Let us know if you need us xx

 

[x-kirsty-x]

I completely understand your reasons, I honestly do as I've also been through it before. I agonised over the decision and it was hard but in the end I knew it was the right thing to do at the time and Im sure you know whats best for you and your family right now.

I respect the fact that you've come on here and been completely honest with people, it cant have been easy.

If you ever need to talk you know where we are

 

[mummykay]

its ur life fran, u do with it as u please cos u know we r all here for u!!

big squeezes

 

[fran_23]

thank you all for your continuing support! i'm sure you all realise it isnt just a snap decision and i'm not taking it lightly!

violet..you feel like your gonna drop anytime soon chick?? cant believe you've gone over i thought you'd have had bubba by now!!

 

[Rubys mummy]

Glad to see you back sweetie...its been a tuff week for you I bet, we are all here to support you in your decision xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[fran_23]

thanks Zoe..hows your sister and niece?
did you have gestational diabetes btw? i havent caught up with all the threads yet! xx

 

[Rubys mummy]

They are great hunny, Olivia is coming home tomorrow!! Sis is doing good, suffering a bit with trauma of it all but she is remarkable really considering what she went through...
Got to have MORE fooking blood tests on 12th December, checking glucose levels then..I will of had this baby by the time they sort my blood tests palaver out
There is a thread 3rd tri with piccies of baby from Wed xx

 

[fran_23]

oooh great..i'll go check them out now

thats great news..apart from the more blooodtests part! i'm sure it will all work out for you!