Nikki,
I am not prepared to have this forum used as a channel for judging other people's actions and situations. We are all here to support each other, I will not tolerate members expressing their disapproval of other members' situations in such a way as you have done.
As previously requested via PM, please refrain from making this type of post immediately, otherwise I will have no alternative but to terminate your membership on this forum. I have asked you once, and would ask you again to respect my request forthwith.
Laura B
Site Admin