Thank you ladies.
I did dread logging on and expecting a backlash.
I am still in love with the father and know this has now ended the affair but I hope when hes calmed down we can talk civilly and move on.
We live in the same village and this will be hard to keep a secret but I hope he steps up which I cant imagine he wouldnt do, he is a very devoted father to his children.
This is going to be difficult to explain to my own children but they will love the baby just as much as I will, thats all that natters