Dysco and her chick

How can it go wrong so quick???? Ollie decided that in 2013 he was no longer going to take from the breast!?!?! He's fighting every feed and barely taking anything so we ended up at the mw led unit last night for help. They didn't really said he had wind. He might have but would he sleep with bad wind? So I've been expressing and feeding him expressed milk all night. Exhausted is not the word!
 
:shock: Jesus naughty Ollie!
When Amelie had wind and colics she would scream and not sleep at all :( pulling her legs on her tummy, twisting her back etc.does that sound like Ollie??
How about nipple shields? Would he feed like that?

Expressing is bloody hard work. Did it for 8 weeks it destroyed me and couldn't enjoy my baby :( I feel for you.

Can I do sth to help??
 
Hmm dysco how about reflux??
As you probably bottle feed with him slightly upright maybe is the more laying down position that bothers him during bf making reflux more severe? ( like 89-90 percent of babies have a degree of reflux, just some get it more than others)
 
Washed my phone so not been online, nipple shields have worked, touch wood, but being tentative rather than too positive just yet! I really don't think he has a colic problem, windy occasionally but he rarely has a problem bring up wind. It might accumulate but I don't think it's any thing more than the odd bit of wind. We think in part he got over tired and over hungryt but now I am confident expressing hopefully that won't happen again! Heaing for am early night so twill try and get online more tomorrow xx
 
Oh no! Sounds like a real stressful time but hopefully you've found the solution... These babies keep throwing things as us just when we think we've got it sussed :eh: Good luck with it all xxx
 
I hope things are a bit better now hun?

Expressing was horrible and I only lasted about 5 weeks. I hated it to be honest.

xxxxxxx
 
Yay you have a mummy diary, I'm still stuck in pregnancy boo!

Your little man is adorable :) apparently first born boys get reflux more ? My nephew had it but that's another story, and the doctors had said that boys usually get it more, yay for me to look forward to as well lol.

Hope he gets back to feeding from you expressing seems exhausting!

xxxxxx
 
Huge quodos to anyone who manages to express for more than a week. For 2 days I found it exhasuting and so tied to the house. Things have improved significantly and he's on the breast, mostly without nipple shields but at night seems to need them occasionally. So they are always at hand. Now he's just feeding a lot every afternoon/evening, with little sleep so now trying to get back into some kind of patern. It is improving day by day,mi have to keep reminding myself we are only day18. People tell me we are doing well, it just doesn't feel like that! He doesn't seem colicky so we are lucky, so far at least. The odd bit of possetting but nothing more, he winds quite easily although it is harder at night. It's just the constant feeding that hard and lack of happy awake time but hoping that will come with time. We do get moments of happy awake time, just very short ATM. Just presuming its all normal at this stage.
 
Hey you:)
Glad to hear everything is a little better. My oh is referring to those 8 weeks that I expressed as the dark age lol...:(
Amelie had some happy moments after like 8 weeks but mostly after she turned 3 m...it's hard so hard but it will happen. I asked that question before at the forum. Everyone said after 4 m but I found that after 10 weeks everything was much easier and the baby already had quite a lot of happy moments.
Hung in there. I know that it's hard to think like that right now but you do really well. You have a healthy baby boy, you bf, he is gaining weight and he is already smiling :). Always here if you need a chat or a moan or a :hug: did you sort your phone?
 
James didn't start having much awake time until he was 4 weeks hun (although as Ollie was 2 weeks late so he is bound to be a bit advanced!

* Wonder Weeks says to always consider his development going from EDD and not date of birth *

You are doing amazingly hun!

xxxxxxx
 
well done for overcoming the issues! Breast feeding is exhausting and demanding but I found it got easier as time went on. Harry has only recently started happy awake time and we still don't get it every day. Yesterday he was a right little bugger but today we've had lots of lovely smiles :) xxx
 
i give up on awak time, just sleep time would be nice. i'm shattered!
 
:hug: did you try to stroll him around the house?
I feel for you. Having a baby is the hardest thing I ever did in my life...
 
today we've been for 2 walks and we'll probably need another one this afternoon. i need to get him eating and sleeping better. i dont want a strict routine but with his feeding issues he's just constanty feeding and napping rather than properly eating and then getting a proper sleep. just kept it going for 3h so hoping he'll sleep now!
 
We had issues with Harry falling asleep during feeding but thankfully that improved. I'm still having issues getting him to nap in the day without me holding him. Have you tried a sling to get Ollie to sleep? Harry always sleeps in his. Can you contact your HV for advice? Not sure you can do much about getting them into routines at this stage though. If you find out the secret, let me know! xx
 
Break through :) well back to normal anyway. Yesterday I imposed a 3h feed regime during the day and it worked. All it means is that I'm trying to learn his real needs better, rather than feeding when he seems hungry, I worked really hard on everything else to try all other options before resorting to feeding and we had a much better day and night with him going 4 h between feeds last night :yay: we have both had some sleep and feel better for it! That's not to say I'm not feeding on demand, just not letting him blackmail me into feeding too soon. That has also stopped him being sick as often and he eats a nod sleeps better. I'm sure it won't last but it feels so god to get over each hurdle, however small!
 
That's great news hon! Well done! What other stuff do you try before feeding then? Sometimes I think Harry needs feeding but am not sure if he just wants attention. It's so hard to tell... xxx
 
Lots of distraction. Talking, bouncing, position changes, putting him in the pram and going for a walk or his bouncer chair. If a ny of that calms him I know he's not hungry! I don't know how long it will last but it's saved my sanity for now!
 
Also, if he's fed we'll, I know he can go 2.5-3h between feeds without a problem!
 
Harry still seems to need to feed every 2 hours on the whole, except at night thank God, although perhaps because I'm short on energy, feeding is more the easy option for me as distraction takes a lot more energy... Sounds like you're doing great anyway :) xxx
 

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