tinselcat
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Due to the size of the foetus, medical management is not an option so i have been offered either ERPC or natural miscarriage at home.
I am not keen on either, so am trying to choose the least risky option.
Am worried that the ERPC might cause internal damage, would feel violated, terrified of going under general anaesthetic. I remember one lady on here not having a period for about 3 months after D&C (which i assume is the same thing) - don't know if that is normal or unusual?
However with the natural option i would not have an anti-D injection (unlike the other) and seeing everything might be upsetting.
If anyone has any experience of either and doesn't mind sharing their advice (here or privately if preferred) then i would really appreciate it.
I'm supposed to call back the EGU with my decision tomorrow morning so that they can arrange everything.
I am not keen on either, so am trying to choose the least risky option.
Am worried that the ERPC might cause internal damage, would feel violated, terrified of going under general anaesthetic. I remember one lady on here not having a period for about 3 months after D&C (which i assume is the same thing) - don't know if that is normal or unusual?
However with the natural option i would not have an anti-D injection (unlike the other) and seeing everything might be upsetting.
If anyone has any experience of either and doesn't mind sharing their advice (here or privately if preferred) then i would really appreciate it.
I'm supposed to call back the EGU with my decision tomorrow morning so that they can arrange everything.