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[lea m]

LOL @ SPD support thread haha
Babydust, Im quite worried now as I thought Im ok as I didnt have it in my pubic bone but it might move there like it did with you
I have never had it before so have no idea what it feels!

That is terrible about the nugget!! You know though OH had a chicken sandwich and had a bone in that! About 2cm too! like a rib bone! He threw it away though I wanted to write a letter of complaint and show them! Its so dangerous! Especially in a nugget for children!!

 

[choklatemunky]

D'ya know what girls, I was soooo happy today (for no apparent reason) and just really excited again to be pregnant (not that Ive been not excited, IYKWIM, but you know when you just have one of those happy days)........

Well its all gone to pot now ....I have lost my boobs to stretchmarks already! I thought my boobs were a bit itchy today and it reminded me I needed to go back and see if the shop had my bra size in stock - I got measured recently but the woman wasnt very helpful and just kept giving me more to try on that didnt fit properly at all and she kept trying to persuade me they were fine Anyway, I gave up that day cos I got fed up with her but thought Id try again today to see what they had in - and I found something in the right size and went to try it on.....there I was standing infront of the mirror, being greeted by the worlds largest most purple stretchmark right across the bottom of my right boob - and it looks like one is brewing on the left one too......pants! There was nothing on them yesterday!!! and my boobs were one of the best things about me! Oh well, I guess I will have to try think of it as something which led to me to having my LO?! and I cant complain about something which did that now can I....
But its still a bit of a bummer!

 

[LisaPink]

Chocklatemunky, I had the worse stretchmarks across my belly in my last pregnancy & I swear they appreared over night, they arent too bad now. In this pregnancy I now have a cleavage to rival Jordans but last night noticed a few stretchmarks appearing under my boobs, not happy!! But Hubby calls them tiger stripes! LOL!! That remineds me, I really need to go & get measured for some new bras.

So how is everyone today? Had my 20 weeks scan, & we think we are having a girl!! Cannot be 100% as the baby was not cooperating & hiding her bits (guess I should be glad she is lady like) but the sonographer has been doing this for over 20 years & was pretty sure she couldnt see anything dangle!! Just wish I could afford the 4D scan to make sure!!

Hope all the SPD sufferers are having a pain free day? Mine is blooming sore!!

xx

 

[lea m]

Aww chok! I got loads on my boobs in my first pregnancy! On my hips and lower belly too!

I went to the physio today and it was confirmed! I do have SPD Not very happy! But good news is that my bones havent moved yet so if I do what I should and dont do much else lol I should be ok but the thought of not walking anywhere or not being able to do much of anything for the whole rest of the pregnancy makes me so sad Its ok relaxing when you choose too but to have it forced upon you isnt Thank goodness Im taking my pills hey lol I would have you all depressed if I got any worse lmao!

 

[LisaPink]

Lea, sorry to hear you have SPD, but its good that your bones havent moved, fingers crossed that will continue. My left side of my pelvis has moved up, & so far has had to be pulled back into place twice!! The thing is, when you have kids already it is pretty much impossible to relax & rest!! Ive been sitting her 'resting' while the kids are out in the garden & I took my eyes off them for a second & they have wrecked my rotary drier, the little monsters!! Im gonna have to try & fix it before Hubby gets home, otherwise he'll go mad!!

 

[hennaly]

im so down now i dont even want to be pregnant anymore

 

[lea m]

Oh no lisa!! Littl monkeys! Thats the thing though isnt it! Rest? Yeh right haha
My aunt had to have her leg pulled lol is that what they do with you? I hope my bones dont move! But she said they seem pretty well in place so if they do, I dont think it will be soon so I will just take care!

Hennaly Is it down as in depression or something else!?

 

[hennaly]

its called a bitch of a mother in law sacked me for no real reason with no warnings or anything.
Now i dont know how we will live.

 

[lea m]

OMG Im so sorry!! How horrid!? Is there nothing you can do? Oh no wonder your down

 

[LisaPink]

Lea, 1st time they pulled it back into place, but because it moved out of position again, this time I had to raise my hip up whilst lying on my side (not blooming easy!), & they pulled it into place, sort of using our strength against each other. It wasnt too painful at the time, made me feel sick but afterwards.........OOOOWWWWWWW!!!!

Hennaly, thats terrible! What a c*w!! Cant believe she didnt even give you a warning or reason esp. as she is your MIL!!

 

[hennaly]

she is a control freak and if you dare stand up to her as i did this is what you get.

 

[LisaPink]

That is so out of order!! I'd offer to go & slap her for you but I dont drive & you are a bit far away!! Good for you standing up to her, but sorry this is the result. What has your OH said?

 

[hennaly]

My hubby is mad about it and we are now just waiting for her to sack him too

 

[lea m]

My hubby is mad about it and we are now just waiting for her to sack him too

Oh gosh what a witch!!! This is so horrible!! What does her OH's dad say? Cant he have a word with her?! How can she do this to her son and DIL?!

 

[LisaPink]

I honestly cannot begin to think what must go through these peoples minds, how could they think they are in the right to treat anyone that way, esp. family?? Fingers crossed she wont sack your OH, although I think you are better off staying away from her!!

 

[hennaly]

her husband does as he is told, he wouldnt dare stand up to her.

 

[chedz]

It's great to come on here and read about other people feeling just as sh*!@y as me (not that it's good that your feeling crap it's just nice to know I'm not the only one) I'm sick of pretending I feel 'glowing' when all I wanna do is curl up in bed with a huge bar of dairymilk to drown my sorrows

Anyways... hennaly I know exactly how you feel, my hubby's job doesn't look very safe at the mo, it's sooo stressfull.

Surely what she's done is unfair dismissal? it could look like she sacked you cos your expecting. With no warning you have a strong case.

 

[rach]

hi all oh my god there are so many posts i dont think i can keep up sorry if i miss commenting on anyone or anything xxxx

sorry to those with spd i know how painful it is xxx

hennaly im so sorry about your job and your horrid mil hope you get things sorted xxx

lea i had a feeling you were going to get diagnosed with spd sorry hun hope you manage to keep it under control xxx

lisapink i had same problem with my spd on last pregnancy my bones had twisted and locked it was really painful i had some manipulation which i agree was very painful for a few days but after that eased it for quite a while hope the same happens for you xxx

chedz we are a right lot of moaners on here lol we are all really happy to be pg but like you say why pretend we are blooming when we are bloody not pregnancy is hard xxx

babydust hope your ok hun and spd not too bad today def get the pillow you will be amazed at how much it will help xxx

chok hows you hun hope your ok xxx

im sure we are missing a few faces again but there are so many of us now and my brain is mush whoever im missing hope your well xxx

day off for me today and im still nursing a horrid cold and sore throat really fed up other than that nothing going on
not sure if maybe starting to feel some sort of movement will let you know if it happens again and im more sure lol other than that my life is very boring at the moment lol xxxxxxxx

 

[mibiuk]

Hi,

Oh man you ladies seem to be having a rough time of it at the moment hope you all get sorted soon!

I am bidding you farewell as now moved to the dark side of 3rd Tri and im gonna miss all the chit chat so hurry on over Babydust and get this lot chatting too

Take care all and i will keep popping back to see how you all doing
Kathy x

 

[lea m]

Thanks Rach!!
You seem to have had that cold forever! I hope it shifts soon hun!