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[rach]

hi all and welcome to all new posters hope you and all your babies are well xxxxxxxxxxx

sorry not been on for a few days got a nasty virus on my pc which decided to eat through my windows files and destroyed it so not even the windows page would load up all we had was a black screen so we have had to wipe my hard drive completely and reinstall everything which is nice as its like having a new pc again on the downside though i lost loads of photos and music (teach me for not backing things up to disc) most of the photos are also on our other pc too so its not too bad but im going to shift myself now and get some discs and back up everything on the other pc and send the photos to asda for printing before anything happens to that pc lol

worked all weekend and now down to 10 shifts

christopher had his eye appointment this morning not good news he definately has something wrong with his 1 eye they said he may be long sighted and have a lazy eye he has an urgent appointment now to see the hospital optician in a month where we will find out more but it looks like hes going to have to have glasses and probably have his 1 eye patched for a while im so upset i feel guilty as if its my fault but i think its because i cant do anything about it to take it away

well thats all my news really spending my 2 days off trying to get my pc sorted (updates etc and still not installed certain things which i need) so prob wont be on much but will catch up properly when im all sorted
take care everyone xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Bexie]

Oh Rach, how annoying for you with your PC!!! And your poor little Christopher, hopefully cos he's still small, wearing glasses won't bother him so much as it may if he were older. One of the women I work with her son had to wear an eye patch for a while (he's a bit older that Christopher) and she said it worked really well for him and he really liked wearing his scooby doo glasses (bit of a novelty).

We've just been looking at some wedding photo's of the son of one of the women at work, they were such beautiful photo's, then one of the girls asked me to show her the style of dresses that I liked (something simple), so I've been online to show her and now I'm getting all carried away thinking of what dress I want when me and my OH eventually get round to getting hitched. The only problem is my OH reckons a budget of £300 is enough When we do get round to getting married I want Phoebe and this LO to be involved, so they will either be Bridesmaid and pageboy or two bridemaids, so I reckon when the youngest is 3 we'll eventually get round to getting married after being together for 10 years!!!!

 

[lea m]

Hey ladies!
LisaS dont feel self conscious! Who cares what others think! Your having a baby and if it means piling on the lbs for a few months then who is anyone to say whats the right size you should be!

Marley, you welcome! Sorry your aunt had a hard time!

Bexie sounds like a lovely weekend! Yay on your ticker moving!!

Babydust yay on your ticker moving too!!!

Rach been wondering where you have been! Thought you were just busy with work!
Sorry about the mess with your pc! I think I better back up my photos etc! I hope your sons eye can be sorted easily and with as little discomfort to him as possible!

Bexie (again haha Im working down the list of posts)
So what is your type of dress!? heehee We're not gettign married! Was going to but my god so sick of planning for nothing! Each year we set a date and something happened where we couldnt! I just recently decided that I dont even want to get married now so changed my name and title haha So Im not Mrs Mottershead anyways! We've been together 10 years now so maybe one day but seriously cant be bothered with them any more! heehee

 

[lisaspoon]

Hi Everyone
Hope you are all well!

lea - thanks hun I know myself I'm spot on with my weight gain so they can all take a hike!!

rach - hope your pc is ok... I need to back up my stuff too as I have had the "blue screen of death" (as the OH calls it!) a few too many times that I would like! Think my laptop may give in soon....
Yay to 10 shifts!! Sorry about christopher and his eye I was the same when I was younger, lazy eye and had to wear patches, irronically, my OH is exactly the same, he is panicking more about our baby having something wrong with their eyes too

Bexie - After being wedding dress shopping with my sister-in-law to be, I too got carried away with what I would like.... I dont even have an engagement ring on the finger yet ....

babydust- yey to ticker moving!! I cant wait to move up a baby!!

Went to the docs this morning to get some compression stockings...... have been given a nice thigh length one for my left leg as my varicose veins seem to have creeped up...yummmmy!!! I'm sure OH will find it well attractive!!
Had a lazy weekend and bank holiday.....only a 4 day week!!
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[lea m]

Ooh you just reminded me I need the full length ones now! I keep forgetting to make an appointment with the doc!

Ooh I had a scary dream last night! I was in labour well woke up in hospital half drugged and no Joe! I felt so uncomfortable and my hair was wringing wet with sweat! A midwife came in and hooked me to a monitor but then on side werent picking anything up! I had to be taken for an emergency section! My mum and nan were wondering about the hospital and I was like please mam go home so Joe can come (she would have to have the kids for me) and I was begging them not to take me until Joe got there! Then he came and I found out he had been at another girls house making plans for just incase I died in childbirth! How horrid is that?!!? Worst thing is it seemed so realistic my dream that I woke up hating him hahaha

 

[lisaspoon]

awww lea
I havent had any dreams about childbirth yet,...my OH has.. I gave birth to a lovely springer spaniel!!! nice!

I have had dreams where I have woken up hating my OH though for some reason! lol!

 

[lea m]

Its weird I have never dreamt of childbirth before! Its kinda made me feel a little sad I have months to wait if Im honest! Its got me all excited! Though i dont want to have to have a section because of problems and I dont want OH making plans with other women hahaha

 

[lisaspoon]

lol i wouldnt want my OH making plans with other women either!
Dont worry once you get to tri 3 the time will fly by!

I feel like I have aaagggeesss to go!

 

[lea m]

It was like last week when I was 17 weeks hun so Im sure it will fly for you! Seriously! It feels like last week!

 

[Bexie]

Ah Lea, poor you having a horrible dream like that, my LO couldn't sleep last night so after trying to settle her my mind started racing and I was thinking all about when I go into labour and who is going to look after LO, I decided in my sleepy haze that OH would have to stay at home with her and I would go it alone!! It's not as if we haven't got friends who would be able to look after her!!

I like the last 3 wedding dresses on this page http://www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs...&catalogId=10001&categoryId=64885&pageSize=12 i just want something simple, not too dressey. My OH would probably prefer it if I did the same as you Lea and changed my name by depole, less hassell for him, tee hee

Lisaspoon, you'll be in Tri 3 before you know it, I can remember thinking how slow tri 1 was, but since 13 weeks it's gone so much quicker.

 

[lea m]

Aww they are beautiful! I love the Josephine one!!
I have 3 dresses (lol) my first was a beautiful red silk one with like pin-tuck skirt! Then I found OH wasnt infact divorced from his first wife! (he "thought" that when he recieved papers from her 15 years ago that they were "divorced" it was only when I applied for a copy of it that we found he wasnt! ) so that was out the door! (though not literally lol its in the wardrobe! )
Dress #2! Another beautiful red one! strapless but with gloves that puff a bit at the top so kinda looks like bardot style top kwim? (not big puffy sleaves though lol) then we had to cancel that wedding as he couldnt trace his "wife" and the solicitor was crap! lol
Next year! Woo decided for a total change of heart! Got the most beautiful big white dress! Corset top made up of diamontes! And a massive massive skirt! Gorgeous! Well then I found out her had cheated one me! So obviously that wedding got cancelled! hahaha
Now we're back together we did think about it again but I just dont want to now! Our path to a wedding has been nothing but trouble and heartache! I'll stick with changing my name haha Though i do keep forgetting! I still havent told the banks!!

 

[Bexie]

The thing is, no matter how gorgeous the dress is, I know I'm not gonna look a patch on the models in them!! I'll probably have a jelly belly by then too, tee hee.

 

[Bexie]

Your dresses sound lovely, you know one day if you feel like it you could still get married and showcase all three dresses on the same day, one for the service, one for the meal and one for the evening, and think how cute Lola and Lucy would be as bridesmaids and then your boys as pageboys.

I was thinking of boys names that I like the other day and Joseph is one of them, then I was thinking of middle names and we want a Welsh middle name as we're both Welsh, anyway origionally I'd thought Gethin, then I thought I prefer Dylan, but then thought, no Lea will think I'm her forum stalker, calling my son Joseph Dylan, tee hee

 

[lea m]

Awww I would not think that!! Joseph Dylan is a lovely name!!!

Lol imagine me changing dresses 3 times on my wedding!! heehee I would feel like a celeb hahaha

 

[rach]

hi all well seems pc is almost back to normal too much to catch up on with you lot of chatterboxes but at least i can try and keep up now hope your all ok xxxxxxxxx

 

[Bexie]

Hi Rach, Glad your PC seems to be getting better. Our PC at home is useless, that's why I tend not to come on-line over the weekend. We keep on talking about buying a laptop, but just don't seem to get round to it.

Hope everyone else is well today.

Lea - Mentioned to Oh last night that I liked the name Joseph Dylan and he loves the name Joseph, but use to work with a guy called Dylan who he didn't get on with, so Dylan is a no go!!! He suggested Maldwyn after his dad, but I hate the name, it's too Welsh!!!! Decisions, decisions! I've got no names that I'm really set on though, more so with girls, I'm really struggling this time round, I can see the baby is going to remain nameless for a few weeks!!!

Had a bath with my LO last night and it is getting more and more uncomfortable to have a bath with her as my belly gets bigger and bigger, she likes to move around loads and at one point, stood up then plonked herself down heavily onto my belly, ooh the shock, I've felt baby moving since so haven't been too worried, but ouch the shock!!!

Miserable here today, what has happened to our summer, it's unbelievable, hope we have an Indian summer.

Take care ladies. xx

 

[lea m]

Hi Rach!! Glad your PC seems to be working ok now!!

Bexie I couldnt decide on names for ages! If she would have been a boy I doubt she would have a name now still! Im still not even 100% on Lola-Mae! I will wait until she is born and see what she looks like hahaha
Ouch on LO sitting on your bump!

I think Im off swimming today with the kids!! I feel a bit rough though Yay im actually in tri 3 now but I hope you dont mind me still posting here?! I waiting for you to all come over heehee

 

[Bexie]

You'll have to start a chat thread in tri 3.

 

[rach]

hi bexie poor you hun sounds painful i certainly wouldnt want to bath with christopher now the weather here is rubbish too and the kids go back to school next week theyve had hardly any nice weather to go anywhere xxx

hi lea yay for reaching 3rd tri your on the run home now hun wont be long and you will be holding your baby glad your sticking around i have 4 weeks till i get to 3rd tri i would miss you hope you had fun swimming and your feeling better xxx

hi to everyone else xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

where is everyone sally, kmac, rom, or have i just missed them posting??????

 

[lea m]

Bexie I was thinking of starting one but was too shy lmao! Might do now though!!

Rach! 4 weeks will fly by!! I didnt end up going swimming! Such a major stress for me! First I was going with my sis and aunt with their kids, then my aunt was ill and my sis decided she was going with her OH instead! Nice hey!?? So because of the belly ache I have had today i didnt feel like getting the bus on my own (car still isnt fixed yet) I didnt want to go! Then sis OH couldnt go so "oh I will go with you then" (cheeky get) so I was annoyed tbh! But I felt like I was letting the kids down but the pains were enough to bring tears to my eyes! Anyway, I had them kelloggs swim vouchers and found out that my local pool no longer takes them!? Good job I phoned to check as I wouldnt have took the extra money with me and got there and been really peed off! Anyway It was just too much of a palava and I ended up crying so we didnt go Poor kiddies! But we are going on Friday and they were ok with that!
What a drama! Pregnancy hormones and me just dont work well together lol!