thanks nightowl. did you get your BFP?
I did, Im still in disbelief, done a few more tests since and getting nice strong lines now and 2-3 on clearblue which has reassured me hcg is rising, Im really rooting for you to get a nice sticky bfp soon maximus I will be wishing baby dust your way
Ah I am so happy for you night owl how exciting !
Thank you for your wishes and I hope it will happen for me too. Do you mind telling me if you used opks and if so did you do it every day or every other day and was that when you got your positive opk?
Aah thank you maximus, Im being cautiously optimistic.
Of course I dont mind! I used opks every day, only once a day as I get a build up to a positive rather then a quick surge, so I never miss the positive - I use them from cycle day 10 onwards everyday at 2pm or thereabouts - but always between 12pm and 3pm if I cant do it at 2pm, I seem to get my best result in the afternoon, I try not to go for a wee or drink too much water from 10am until I do the opk so Ive got concentrated urine,
I find my nearly positive opk and positive coincide with ewcm, I usually get 2 or 3 days of it, although its not that plentiful, I have to reach in to see that its there urgh gross, I get it at the same time Ive got my nearly positive and my positive opk
This cycle I got nearly positive opk on cd 16, positive on cd17, DTD on cd 16 around 2 o clock in the afternoon, ewcm had dried up by the evening of cd18 so I think I ovulated sometime on cd18, I had ewcm on cd 16 when we DTD so I think the sperm had found its way to the ewcm
to survive there while waiting for the egg - I have conceived like that before even further away from ovulation (think it was around 3 days before) when I had a chemical, in all honesty I credit OHs sperm for our luck so far, he doesnt drink, does a decent amount of exercise and hes so fussy about underwear he will only wear 100% cotton boxies, maybe thats had some impact on sperm quality!