KarolinaMoon
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Hi,
I went for the second scan today, and this time the midwife saw a very tiny speck, what she thought could be or have been the fetal pole, or beginnings of a baby. She said it measured about 5 and a half weeks. But she wasnt able to confirm this for definite. In any case, I am meant to be 10 weeks at least. My gestational sac is now a crescent shape and has changed since my scan on Monday, it looks like it is collapsing. The sac measures 3.5cm, the guidelines they go by are a sac of 2cm or less is still possibly ok. It was confirmed for definite today that this pregnancy is not continuing. I still dont know what to do. I have another appointment next wed, but I just wish it would miscarry naturally.
Also, I have continued to go into work all this week, as I wasnt quite sure what was happening, and felt it was best for me to keep going. The midwife was quite shocked I was going into work , she said my emotionally and physically I would be up in the air right now. Can anyone advise on what they did regards work, and taking ttime off, and telling their manager etc? I worry alot about these kind of things, and would quite happily tell as few people as possible.
Any help right now is greatly appreciated, to think so many women go through this, it really is such a horrible experience.
Carolina xxx
I went for the second scan today, and this time the midwife saw a very tiny speck, what she thought could be or have been the fetal pole, or beginnings of a baby. She said it measured about 5 and a half weeks. But she wasnt able to confirm this for definite. In any case, I am meant to be 10 weeks at least. My gestational sac is now a crescent shape and has changed since my scan on Monday, it looks like it is collapsing. The sac measures 3.5cm, the guidelines they go by are a sac of 2cm or less is still possibly ok. It was confirmed for definite today that this pregnancy is not continuing. I still dont know what to do. I have another appointment next wed, but I just wish it would miscarry naturally.
Also, I have continued to go into work all this week, as I wasnt quite sure what was happening, and felt it was best for me to keep going. The midwife was quite shocked I was going into work , she said my emotionally and physically I would be up in the air right now. Can anyone advise on what they did regards work, and taking ttime off, and telling their manager etc? I worry alot about these kind of things, and would quite happily tell as few people as possible.
Any help right now is greatly appreciated, to think so many women go through this, it really is such a horrible experience.
Carolina xxx