Luckily she just blanks me at school now its wayyyyy better like that, I hope so much she doesn't try and apologise or make up because I will be telling her where to go if she does, I am really enjoying the peace, and I feel free!
I also have more free rein to speak to other parents which sounds ridiculous but she was so bitchy about other mums it made me feel like I had to just stand with her all the time but now I have made more mum friends which is amazing in a week of her being out my life lol!