Toxic_Angel
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As most of you know i have alot of problems with me and my OH, basicly he's too interested in his friends, I said to him the other night "from mondays to fridays why dont you see your family an friends then spend weekend wth me" an he said yeah but now he wont because he "cant be assed" so im like grrr.
It's only in past 2 month hes turned into a complete twat. An its easy for someone to go "finish him" (dammit baby stop kicking im tryna be serious here damn you makin me smile)
Well anyway he says im too demanding an controling?
I may be demandin i'll admit that but when he's with his friends he slags me off an 2 of his friends give me dirty looks an the other 2 just stare at my boobs .
And when i confront him about how hes being he just says im moaning an anoying him. and all im trying to do is sort things out like arrangements an that.
I've offered for him to live with me, i live in 3 bedroom house wth my mum an her bf, spare room is gona be babys room untill i find a place of my own.
But hes said no becase he doesnt like my mums bf.
I can understand why he doesnt like him but surely cuz im carryin his baby he would want to be wherever i am.
I did live at his parents with him but i got moaned at for eating too much :S an i did all her cleaning an everything.
So im really confused as to what to do im not sure if im even postin this in right place?
Well last night i said to him midwife is coming on friday morning so i want him to be here (but she isnt actualy coming i wanted to see what he said) so now hes sayin hel be here tomorrow at half 8am an hel be here for the baby and not me. wich i found rude =[
And also people keep saying forget him an that but i dont want to not have any contact with him as hes babys father an id rather my baby have a dad that doesnt care rather than no dad,, because that she he/she can grow up a see him for how/who he is an not judge me for not lettin him be apart of his/her life.
Am i bad for lying about the midwife thing? ive told him time and time again will he come here so we can have a serious talk an he says no. An it seems like me sayin about the midwife was only thing to get him here? as i certainly aint going to walk an hour an half to his mums so he can be ignorant an laugh at me sayin im just moaning.
It's really hard to desribe how mine an his relationship is.
sorry for the long rant!
It's only in past 2 month hes turned into a complete twat. An its easy for someone to go "finish him" (dammit baby stop kicking im tryna be serious here damn you makin me smile)
Well anyway he says im too demanding an controling?
I may be demandin i'll admit that but when he's with his friends he slags me off an 2 of his friends give me dirty looks an the other 2 just stare at my boobs .
And when i confront him about how hes being he just says im moaning an anoying him. and all im trying to do is sort things out like arrangements an that.
I've offered for him to live with me, i live in 3 bedroom house wth my mum an her bf, spare room is gona be babys room untill i find a place of my own.
But hes said no becase he doesnt like my mums bf.
I can understand why he doesnt like him but surely cuz im carryin his baby he would want to be wherever i am.
I did live at his parents with him but i got moaned at for eating too much :S an i did all her cleaning an everything.
So im really confused as to what to do im not sure if im even postin this in right place?
Well last night i said to him midwife is coming on friday morning so i want him to be here (but she isnt actualy coming i wanted to see what he said) so now hes sayin hel be here tomorrow at half 8am an hel be here for the baby and not me. wich i found rude =[
And also people keep saying forget him an that but i dont want to not have any contact with him as hes babys father an id rather my baby have a dad that doesnt care rather than no dad,, because that she he/she can grow up a see him for how/who he is an not judge me for not lettin him be apart of his/her life.
Am i bad for lying about the midwife thing? ive told him time and time again will he come here so we can have a serious talk an he says no. An it seems like me sayin about the midwife was only thing to get him here? as i certainly aint going to walk an hour an half to his mums so he can be ignorant an laugh at me sayin im just moaning.
It's really hard to desribe how mine an his relationship is.
sorry for the long rant!