For anyone that missed the drama...
Charlotte (August mummy? Maybe Sept) has had a bit of a nightmare pregnancy, bless her. She's 20, she's had medical issues that have cost her her job, her OH left her (I think he's back now but they're not "right", something about he had the "how do I support a family?" Man-panic). She's several different problems, still lives at mum an dad's, trying to get somewhere sorted, and has discovered she has scar tissue in her uterus from a previous medical op. The docs have said at her 16w scan that the placenta may have attached to some scar tissue, and they'll keep an eye on it. She's since googled and got herself semi-convinced she's gonna die giving birth. Her OH broke down in tears about how he can't handle the thought of her dying... On top of all this, she has bad anxiety/depression.
A couple people in the "googled" thread told her to stop worrying about what might be, that death in child-birth is now extremely rare, and that she needs to focus on having a positive outlook and stop driving herself nuts over googles medical death-warrants.
A couple others thought these posters had come across overly harsh to someone struggling, and a big old row kicked off.
Fun times.
Personally, I think if you can't take advice over a written forum with a grain of salt, the internet probably isn't for you. Here especially is a great place to share the good and the bad, but the written word will only ever be 40% communication, 60% interpretation. I think everyone that posts on here does so with the best of intentions, and it's up to the reader to decide how to take it.
Unfortunately, it's a thread that has gotten a little out of hand, and now a long-time poster is talking of leaving because of it.
Anyways...
Don't forget...
Pelvic floor exercises

xx