Wow I'm overwhelmed by your messages, thank you so much it has been a comfort.
I've been offered the chance to go to a different hospital for a second opinion. However, my best friends Aunty works there and I had a long chat with her last night, unfortunately she shared the opinion of the doctor I saw yesterday.
The problem is there is now no fluid left at all and my baby is not moving, heartbeat is slowing so whether I terminate or wait and see it looks bleak, I hate to think of my poor baby in there suffering.
I asked about an amnioinfusion (adding more fluid) and was told that it was not an option - the trauma of inserting a needle is almost guaranteed to bring on a miscarriage because of the weakened state of my baby.
I feel so empty.
Thank you all again for your kind words
Xx