Sorry just a (another) wee rant.
Why are people so negative about being pregnant or having children?
For example: "I can feel the baby move now, little kicks every now and then " Surely the correct reply is: Oh how lovely, bet it makes you even more excited. But no, why do people have to say. "Well, you wait until it's kicking you in the middle of the night and it hurts and their foot get's stuck in your rib cage and ends up fracturing your ribs!"
I've stopped talking about my baby now and ended up in tears Saturday morning purely because I just want someone to share the fun with me. Hubby is fantastic but I don't want him to feel I talk about the baby all the time but I'm so excited and other people just drag it down. Now when people ask how I am I just say yeah, fine. If they push I just keep saying 'yeah fine' like a crazy!
Even when I bought some baby things the other day I was told 'I wouldn't buy too much because everyone else won't have anything to buy' How inconsiderate of me to buy sleep suits for my child to sleep in, what they hell will everyone else buy?!? Well do you know what? This is MY baby and if I want to buy EVERYTHING for it I will. Stop stealing the fun out of us buying baby things - now me and hubby are buying things but not showing anyone just to stop the comments - it's stupid!
Why are people so negative about being pregnant or having children?
For example: "I can feel the baby move now, little kicks every now and then " Surely the correct reply is: Oh how lovely, bet it makes you even more excited. But no, why do people have to say. "Well, you wait until it's kicking you in the middle of the night and it hurts and their foot get's stuck in your rib cage and ends up fracturing your ribs!"
I've stopped talking about my baby now and ended up in tears Saturday morning purely because I just want someone to share the fun with me. Hubby is fantastic but I don't want him to feel I talk about the baby all the time but I'm so excited and other people just drag it down. Now when people ask how I am I just say yeah, fine. If they push I just keep saying 'yeah fine' like a crazy!
Even when I bought some baby things the other day I was told 'I wouldn't buy too much because everyone else won't have anything to buy' How inconsiderate of me to buy sleep suits for my child to sleep in, what they hell will everyone else buy?!? Well do you know what? This is MY baby and if I want to buy EVERYTHING for it I will. Stop stealing the fun out of us buying baby things - now me and hubby are buying things but not showing anyone just to stop the comments - it's stupid!