trying for baby

[yummymummyto2]

me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for 3months now and no luck we tried everything daily sex. doing my ovulation dates for when im fertile we both have 2 children together i dont know what else to do i was on the minni pill when my youngest was born till 6 months but dont no if that affected me getting pregnant. my periods are weird now 1st month was ok 2nd was a day late then come on for 3days then this month im a week early ? dont no what else to do as it getting my really worked up and stressed making me feel upset dont know cause i have 2 children so i must be able to have children?​

 

[mrs v]

I know how you feel...but although 3 mnths feels like forever it really isnt that long (we have been TTC for 6 mnths - miscarried in Feb). You can be secure in the knowledge that you can get pregnant...thats what I keep telling myself, I really think we just put too much pressure on ourselves but its easy for others to tell you to 'relax' yeah right!!! Do you know there is only approx a 20% chance of us getting caught each month, so I guess the odds are against us! Don't know about you but I just feel like everyone I know is having a baby or sharing their news yet here I am wishing the months away!

 

[janey78]

I'm in the same boat been trying since June came off the mini pill in May. fingers crossed every month.

And yeah mrs v it is like everyone is pregnant or having a baby or everything on the tele is about babies I think we are just more sensitive to it all at the moment.

 

[Bellarina]

Hey iv been trying for almost 4 months now as came off pill end of july. The time seems to drag wen ur ttc as ur wishing the weeks away...wishing to ovulation day....wishing to testing day, when u get a bfn u wish for af etc etc

but ye in the grandscheme of things my dr said on average it can take 6months to a year to catch so i guess its just playing the waiting game girls

xxx

 

[janey78]

It does feel like we have been trying for ages like you say just waiting every month.
Not I have some Clearblue Ovulation tests which I started last month I feel a bit happier as it showed me a smiley face was so happy.

 

[ab11]

god i wish we hav only been tryin for 3 months.
sounds like ur tryin too hard jus try and relax chick
xx