Tried - failed. Tried again - achieved!

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by loopykid, Jan 11, 2008.

  1. Pixzi

    Pixzi Member

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    Its good to hear such enthusiam, so many people judge teenagers on getting pregnant. But deep down everyone is equal, and your body is your own..Me and my partner are trying for a baby, i just on my P right now so we have worked it out when i ovulate. It's our 2nd month of trying and we are really enuthiastic...

    Good Luck with all lovely ladies that have concieved and i wish you all the best for your pregnancy and i hope all the TTCers get theres very soon...


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  2. Melly+2

    Melly+2 Well-Known Member

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    Wow you have done really well chick, u shud be proud of yourself :D Loopykid it doesnt matter how much you want or feel ready for a baby, its nothing to do with age but you are not financially capable of looking after a child, me and my oh get just under £500 a week and we are just about coping trying to pay for everything, you cant rely on your parents, this was YOUR choice not theirs, you should have found yourself a job, and your bf, and find a house, try paying bills, tax, rent all of that, see how you would have coped then. It doesnt matter how much you love your child, you need money to give that baby everything it needs,
    nappies
    clothes
    changing table
    bouncer
    toys
    moses basket
    blankets
    Imagine how much nappies are going to cost a week considering they can go through up to 8 a day if not more at birth. Thats alot of money going on nappies alone!! Have you thought about all of this. What about your education, wouldnt you have prefered to get school out of the way, get good grades, go to uni??? There is plenty of time to have a child, you are young, why do this now??? Your only a child yourself you should have given yourself time to live life and not have to worry about responsibility, early hour feeds, having to plan ahead everytime you want to do something, finding a baby sitter when you do want to go out, you dont realise how hard this is, you really have no idea what so ever!!!
    Anyway im not commenting any more you seem to have decided what you want already, suppose it doesnt matter what anyone says now, whats done is done, i just think it was a daft idea going into such a big commitment without being in a stable situation in the first place :think:
     
  3. meg_bellamy

    meg_bellamy Well-Known Member

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    Wow, that is a very inspirational story, well done! :hug:
     

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