To wait or to try...

[Rainbow1234]

Hi ladies...thinking this is a better place to post this than ttc.

I had a missed mc and early mc in 2014 followed by my daughter being born. Fell pregnant again in June this year and had another mmc.

My doctor has agreed to refer me for testing but warned they may not accept me as my miscarriages weren’t consecutive. I’ll be waiting weeks to find out if they accept me then 3 months before first of the tests.

I don’t know what to do!! On one hand I keep thinking I had such an easy pregnancy with my daughter so maybe there’s nothing wrong and it’s just chance. And on the other I’m terrified I’ll get pregnant and need to go through another miscarriage.

What would you do? I’m leaning more towards just trying again at this point x

 

[Princess81]

I would probably try again if everything was straightforward with your daughter. The likelihood is that the MMc were tragic coincidences.
A very difficult choice to make and not one that I envy. Hugs x

 

[Rainbow1234]

Thanks princess. The only thing concerning me is that both mmc had haematomas and after my latest d&c they suspected that one was molar (im assuming because of clots?) but it turned out it wasn’t. Just scared incase there’s some kind of clotting issue there x