Oh I'm so sorry this has happened, It happened to me too, last year at 11 plus weeks and baby had gone at 9 weeks ish.
Again I can only echo the words of the ladies, it never goes away, but that with some time it does get easier to manage. I would say do try to talk about it when your ready, as the more you say the words , the easier it becomes and became a form of theraphy for me, your making a great start by talking to us lot on here about it , saves delaying some of the pain in a way too - hang in there Hun XX