Stressed

[BabaL88]

I have been trying to conceive over 9 months now. I feel like no matter what I do (ovulation tests/having sex a lot) it isn't working

My period is now 9 days late. I have bad back ache even noticed my face/eyes are different... Can't explain how they are different just are. But iv done 3 clear blue tests now and all came back negative each day is struggle and worry as I stress my period will come any minute.

Anyone have any suggestions? I'm new to this, I don't have my mum to talk to or anyone really
Other than my husband. I feel so low every time I get a negative test and only really have the Internet for guidance... Which I feel stresses me more because other than the back ache and missed period I'm showing no other symptoms of being pregnant

 

[Charlotte9]

So sorry you are stressed. CB tests are not very sensitive. They are 50 mui. Your hcg might not be as high. Have you tried other tests? Frers ( first response early result) are a lot more sensitive 12.5 miu. If that is neg as well you might want to see your doc then?
Hope this helps x

 

[BabaL88]

Thanks Charlotte9, I will look into that

I know getting stressed won't help but I just want it so bad x

 

[MrsS15]

Hey

I completely sympathise. In 3 days we'll be a year ttc, and honestly it's been the worst year of my life! We've tried everything and just not getting anywhere either. Sending you huge hugs

I would try a frer as Charlotte suggested. If that's negative give it another few days then go to the doctor. Also just ask them some advice when you're there? I did and my doctor was surprisingly very helpful! Come join us on the other thread symptom spotters anonymous. We're all in the same boat hun! Xx

 

[BabaL88]

Hi MrsS15, thanks for your comment. I will come join you all. I hope that the year milestone brings you good luck and happiness x