Why doesn't she listen to the heartbeat? That is part of the standard care a midwife is supposed to give?! Did she listen with a pinnard? (Plastic tube thing, means that she would be able to hear it but you wouldn't). If she didn't listen in at all I would personally phone the hospital and tell them, and also explain how rubbish it makes you feel at your appointments - it is a national guideline that midwives should listen in to the fetal heart at every antenatal appointment xx