You def have a right to be annoyed. Ive had my little boys name picked for months now, it is literally the only boys name me and oh agreed on, but i know 3 other women who are having boys around same time as me, not friends but acquaintances, and I really worry that they might have chosen that name too, and folk might think I'd copied them. My close family know the name and I just tell everyone else that we have chosen our name but were not telling yet.