Sleep training - seems to be working!

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Not sure if it's a coincidence but started some self settling training in the last few days, she normally goes 3 hours during the night, last night we had 6 in one go! Today she's been settling very well for naps, sleeping longer for naps too. Seems a lot happier in between too, i'll see what tonight brings? Thanks samsgirl for mentioning sensational sleep plan book. X
 
no problem...all good here too. we had a 10 hour stint last night!!! :D x
 
cant aforde the book can one of you please tel me what to do :)

still not gettin her to bed till were going
 
It's prob not to everyone's liking but it means you have to let them settle to sleep without cuddling them to sleep on sofa etc. If you see yawning signals or its time for a nap put them down awake so they know where they are when they wake. I've been going in after a few mins of crying/grumbling and putting my hand on her chest saying it's sleepy time now and repeating it lots then leaving room. If she cried loudly I'd pick her up cuddle her then put her down after min or two. I've found I can now tell if the cries are gonna be short-lived and leave her longer than I ever have dared before. She seemed to give a good cry before falling asleep for the first day or two but today it's been less (like 30 secs of crying that turned to a whimper and then she was asleep) Keep repeating the hand on chest thing til they sleep. Oh make sure baby is fed, clean and not suffering from anything else first. It also mention the sleep cycles of 40 mins light sleep followed by 40 mins of deepsleep that goes on in cycles. After the light sleep they might wake and cry but if you leave them they might fall asleep again. I did this and she did fall asleep again. Last night I was in bedroom with her reading my book, after about 40 mins I saw her awake in her basket but she made no noise, she looked around a bit. When I looked again minute later she was fast asleep! I guess she is getting used to getting back to sleep herself without needing any aids. As I say it might just be a coincidence as she is nearly 8 weeks, she might just be getting better by herself? Today she has done nothing but sleep it seems, before she was grumbling and getting over tired as I was picking her up after that first 40 mins.
 
Thanks hun,

Think we just need to leave her longer, we do put her donw awake after feeds at night and for naps its just the bed timme that seems to be the problem, the one day we did leave her she settled n went off to sleep waking few hours late for her bottle then at 4 for her next one but was wide awake and would not go back to sleep, think we might have put her dow too early so gonna try putting her down at 9 tonight i think
 
so whats this book where can i get it ladies? when do you start trying this out? my lo is 17 days old xxxxx
 
so whats this book where can i get it ladies? when do you start trying this out? my lo is 17 days old xxxxx

It says to start from day 1 which I haven't done. Sensational baby sleep plan by alison scott-wright. She has a few controversial ideas, as even she states, as in putting baby on front, and putting baby in own room, but she also says there have been studies done to dispel certain SIDS theories. She writes a lot about reflux, as her own grandchild who lived at home with her and her daughter who had severe reflux when born. I take the bits I want from it. I think I will be putting baby into own room earlier than planned as we do keep each other awake with OH snoring and her grunting and snuffling, but i'm still not 100% decided.
 
ohhh sounds interesting thanks, well ill order that online then and give it a go, might not work but worth trying! xxx
 

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