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[babydust]

had really bad news at 13 week scan today there was alot of fluid around babies neck and it had a huge heart defect i was told it wouldnt survive to term they advised me to have a termination tomorrow, i cant stop crying i dont know what to do they did a cvs but results wont be back till thursday but they said it will only confirm what the scan shows, i have had 3 m/c over the past 4 years thay were all about 8 weeks but i have never gone through this, its a horrible decision to make.

 

[tracey 2]

oh hun

im so sorry to hear this there are no word that will help to make the desision any easier for you to make, you do what is best for you hun, no one can make that desision but you

if you want to talk at all anytime please just PM.

 

[Misslarue]

so sorry you are going through this

 

[rach]

awwww hun im so so sorry if you need to talk we are all here for you dont feel pressured into having it done 2moro this is your decision do what you need to do when you need to do it will be thinking of you hun xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Urchin]

Oh no, so sorry to hear this

 

[puppylove]

Oh im so sorry to hear that thinking of u

puppy

 

[jenna]

 

[ella]

So sorry for your pain

 

[happy-chick]

So sorry hun x

 

[Happybunny]

How terribly sad. You are in my thoughts honey.

 

[skairdykat]

 

[libs]

 

[Steelgoddess]

Im so so sorry!

This is heartbreaking news!

 

[cloud9]

so sorry

 

[kayzee]

so sorry to hear your news

Just take your time and make the decision that you feel is right for you

We are all here for you

 

[katyk]

Oh no, what a terrible thing to happen

We on this forum are here for you I hope they give you some counselling in future babs, well I would need it but maybe you won't.

But take care of yourself and hugs

 

[babydust]

i let go of my baby yeaterday, it was the hardest day of my life, i feel so empy now my belly has shrunk back down and i really miss my bump, the hardest part was explaining to my little girls what had happened. I phoned the hospital today for the cvs results they were negative for downs syndrom and negative for edwards syndrom, they couldnt even tell me what sex my baby was, it will take 2 weeks for the rest of the chromosomes to be tested and this full report will tell me the sex. i keep looking at the internet for chromosome disorders to get as much info as i can but dont seem to be getting anywere. Has anyone else gone through these tests?

 

[Happybunny]

Sorry sweetie, I haven't had those tests, but I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. You have been through a terrible time.

 

[Steelgoddess]

O baby im so so sorry....

 

[breezee1984]

m im so sorry sweetheart