sad news

[Miss]

Awww Bella, I am so sorry.

At least they are getting you in for the op as soon as possible so the healing can begin x

 

[treeze]

so sorry to hear your sad news.. i cannot imagine what you must be going through.

 

[x-misspinkuk-x]

so sorry for you loss hun, thinking of you x

 

[amandapanda]

Awww Bella this is terrible news , I really was expecting everything to work out ok for you because your symptoms were just discharge and not bright red blood or stomach cramps (like I did when I miscarried). I am so sorry for your loss, you poor thing xx

 

[xx emma xx]

Aww I'm so so sorry! I can't imagine how your feeling right now. I hope your ok xxx

 

[TeeUK]

Really sorry for your loss, I know how it feels...thinking of you xx

 

[soozy]

Really sorry to hear that hun x Dont know what else to say

 

[Sam's Mum]

I'm so sorry

 

[FebMum2Be]

I'm so sorry hun x

 

[Bunny82]

So sorry to hear your news hun My heart goes out to you!

x

 

[Lexusno1]

thank you all for your lovely replies, comforting to have such great support and alsoto know that there are others who have been through the same thing. I have spoken to the EPU today and have been scheduled for an op on Monday, very soon but at least once it's done I will no longer "feel Pregnant" and can start coming to terms with things. Lexus how many weeks were you when you had the scan/found out? x x

Hey hun, well I thought I was 7 weeks so should have been able to detect a heartbeart when I went to the EPU due to bleeding but the sonographer said there was nothing in the sac so was probably a missed m/c. It was upsetting to think that I was never even as far along as I thought I was but in a way that same thing helped me a little too if you know what I mean. Hope you and OH are managing the best you can together. Mine was fab and the thing that helped me the most was talking to him about it. Everyone has different ways of coping but there are a lot of people here for you if you need xxxxx

 

[Bella2]

Hey hun, well I thought I was 7 weeks so should have been able to detect a heartbeart when I went to the EPU due to bleeding but the sonographer said there was nothing in the sac so was probably a missed m/c. It was upsetting to think that I was never even as far along as I thought I was but in a way that same thing helped me a little too if you know what I mean. Hope you and OH are managing the best you can together. Mine was fab and the thing that helped me the most was talking to him about it. Everyone has different ways of coping but there are a lot of people here for you if you need xxxxx[/QUOTE]

Yes that is kind of how I'm trying to come to terms with it now that I'm getting over the shock. It would have been worse to see a little baby in there that just wasn't moving. Today has been pretty awful though, as I said yesterday I was scheduled for my D&C on Monday but today after nearly fainting twice I started to bleed, also lost one massive clot which I'm assuming may have been the placenta. Was an absolutely dreadful experience but looks unlikely now that I will have to go into hospital. Thanks again girls, you have all been so lovely x x x

 

[xshauna_bazx]

Good luck in the future hun, noone should have to go through this. It can only make you stronger xxx

 

[Amanda W]

oh hun iam so sorry to hear this xxx

 

[TwinklinPixi3]

I'm so sorry to hear that lovely, thinking of you xxx

 

[wishuponastar]

I am so sorry sweet. I can't imagine how you must be feeling. Thinking of you.xx

 

[Chazabell]

Im so sorry hun, big cuddles your way xxxxx

 

[zozo]

So sorry to hear that hun xx x Its so unfair xxx

 

[SammyJ]

Bella, I've only just seen your post as haven't been on all weekend- I'm so so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you and your OH. Big hugs xxx

 

[Lexusno1]

Goodness. Well I didnt have to have any op either as it all happened naturally. This was in June and I'm now 15 weeks pregnant so if and when you're ready, it will happen again for you too. You sound very strong about it and hope that outlook sees you through xxx