I took my first miscarriage very hard. I couldn't beleive that it happened to ME, it happens to others not ME ... ya right. The truth is it did happen to me ... twice. The second was a blighted ovum (empty sac), I was stunned ... what kind of cruel trcik was this??? I am very blessed to have 3 wonderful and healthy children ... but, my heart was sure I wasn't done having babies ... I, or should I say we, tried again for a year ... I am very irregular with my menstrual cycle, so actually it was only about 7 months or 7 times I thought I was was ovualting ... and nothing! I am 37 and in November (I was 36y at the time) 2004, My husband and I had a long heart to heart and realized it was God's way ... HE didn't think it was meant to be. So, we pretty much gave up trying (the temp thing, the ovualting calculations, period cycle tracking etc) ....
In December 2004 I had a period starting on the 9th ... it occurred to me at the end of February that I hadn't yet had another period, so I did a prego test, unfortunately it was negative. Then March rollled around and still nothing ... on March 15th did a test and again negative, but something in my gut told me otherwise, I did another test on the 18th, and presto it was postive!
I guess my point is ... once we let our guard down, and relaxed and started to enjoy eachother again, THAT is when it happened! I couldn't be happier, stunned, but happier!!!!!
Also, yes, after M/C you obsess about prego and M/C stuff it is natural.
May you be blessed again!
God Bless to you all, Relax and stay positive!
ST 37y
DT 37y
married 11/21/92
DRT boy 7/15/94
CJT boy 8/26/97
CET girl 11/23/99
MC (D&C) 8 weeks 11/02
blighted ovum (empty sac 6weeks and D&C 10weeks) 10/03
Miracle#4 due 11/16/2005