POLL: Did you conceive straight after miscarriage?

Discussion in 'Coping with Miscarriage & Loss' started by RainbowMama, Feb 26, 2021.

  1. RainbowMama

    RainbowMama Well-Known Member

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    I don't think there is a way for me to add a real poll, but I'm interested to hear how long it took you after a miscarriage to conceive. I've heard stories that you're more fertile after a miscarriage, but I want to know, in real terms whether that's been the case for you all, or not.

    I'm CD7 into my 15th loss. <3
     
  2. Mrsbridge17

    Mrsbridge17 Well-Known Member

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    My last MC was July 2020 I’ve not conceived since x
     
  3. Kholl

    Kholl Well-Known Member

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    Yes, I conceived the cycle after my miscarriage, no period in between. I counted the first day of heavy bleeding as cd1, and that was pretty accurate since he always measured right on target and was even born on his due date.

    Best of luck to you, honey <3 I also took Maca for fertility and to prevent miscarriage, and took it all the way through pregnancy too.
     
  4. Lucie12344

    Lucie12344 Well-Known Member

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    I miscarried November 2018 and it took me a year to conceive again, I actually conceived exactly a year later give or take a week! I was taking fertility drugs as I have lazy ovaries, so not sure if that had a part to play in the length of time xx
     
  5. CrazyChic

    CrazyChic Well-Known Member

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    After 2 longer cycles after my CP I conceived my 3 cycle after.

    Sorry for your loss. Try and stay positive. Any chance you can start progesterone as soon as you ovulate?
     
  6. x3violins

    x3violins Active Member

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    I had a missed miscarriage in October 2010 and another missed miscarriage in October 2016. October is apparently a bad month for me. I conceived for the third time in spring of 2020. I never tried to get pregnant immediately after a loss. Each one hit me hard, both emotionally and financially and I needed time to recover. My first pregnancy was unintentional, conceived on birth control after exposure to an antibiotic. The other two were intentional pregnancies conceived easily on the first cycle. I've been lucky to be able to conceive without trouble each time I intended to.

    I wish you the best of luck moving forward. I hope you conceive when you're ready to and that a healthy baby comes your way soon. ❤️
     
  7. RainbowMama

    RainbowMama Well-Known Member

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    Thank you @Kholl, Can I ask how far (gestation wise) you were, when you miscarried? I hope to maybe follow in your footsteps, I feel very uncertain about this cycle, I want to try but mentally, I don't think I should. <3


    Thank you, I still have progesterone pesseries, but I don't think progesterone is the reason I'm miscarrying. I think it's a blood clotting disorder that was nearly diagnosed in 2015. <3

    Sorry to hear of your loss. I am on the fence as to whether to try this cycle or not. I keep going forward and back on thoughts on whether we should try or not. I've started my BBT to confirm if or when I do ovulate. <3

    @Mrsbridge17, Hopefully your :bfp: is coming soon, I have everything crossed for you. <3

    @Lucie12344, Bless you! I'm glad you for your :bfp:, well deserved. <3
     
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  8. x3violins

    x3violins Active Member

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    I was put on a low dose of asprin for the duration of my last pregnancy. I have no idea if that helped or not, but I did carry to term that time. If you suspect a blood clotting disorder, it might be worth talking to your doctor about that.
     
  9. RainbowMama

    RainbowMama Well-Known Member

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    I have and I will have blood tests.

    I saw a really obnoxious fertility specialist in 2015 (at that point, I'd only had 9 miscarriages) and she said she's 99% certain the bloods will come back normal and it's ''natures selection''.
    My bloods came back positive for a blood clotting disorder.
    She then said we needed a repeat test (in 4 months) to confirm the diagnosis.
    At the time of the second blood test (which also returned a positive result), I was early into my last successful pregnancy. Because of that, she ruled out the diagnosis as 'pregnancy voids the result'. I carried to term with no problems and was not given or advised to take a blood thinner.

    I asked her about taking aspirin in the two week wait and she advised me it can also hinder implantation, how true that is I don't know. I just remember how obnoxious she was.
     
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    flowerbomb Well-Known Member

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    I had a missed misarriage at 12 weeks in 2012 and it took me 4 months to get pregnant again after that.
     
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    RainbowMama Well-Known Member

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    That's good to know, I'm hoping our blessings are coming soon <3
     
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  12. x3violins

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    Wow! I'm so sorry you had such a rotten experience with your fertility specialist! I would definitely seek out further information regarding your clotting disorder results as you move forward. It might make all the difference. I'm hoping whatever is causing your miscarriages can be identified and treated. You've had so many losses. My heart breaks for you.
     
  13. RainbowMama

    RainbowMama Well-Known Member

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    Thank you, me too. I need answers.
    CD13 and the bleeding is back to red and heavier.
    It's also my birthday today, another year older and still, empty arms.
     
  14. Mrs Smith34

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    Yes. I miscarried on thanksgiving day last year....we wasn’t ttc. I found out I was pregnant during a emergency visit. I was totally shocked of the news. But my family have a history of miscarriages. I do have 3 boys already hopefully this is my girl!!!!
     
  15. Mrs Smith34

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    I’m 10 weeks btw. Due November 9,2021
     
  16. Music1234

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    I had a 2nd trimester miscarriage May 13th 2016 and we got pregnant with our daughter a month later in June (we were not trying since we were told wait 6 months bt my doctor and I had not had a cycle yet since the miscarriage) our daughter was born healthy February 2017
     

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