OH -- don't know what to do

[Lilelephant]

I just worry the baby willsee it in gets to come too it's disturbing

 

[cosmicgirl]

You need to speak to him hun x

 

[ceris]

the u[set and stress wont do you or baby any god hun.... def think you need to confront him. you and the baby should mean more to him than internet sites.... xxx

 

[Emmamb]

I think u should try and talk to him about it,don't have a row and don't confront him but bring the subject up
somehow. My DH watches porn-he has stuff on his phone,on laptop etc etc and sometimes it bothers me but I always try and talk to him about it and I know he doesn't mean any harm by it,he doesn't even get off on it anymore xxx

 

[Olive]

I'm sure he doesn't mean anything by it. If it's upsetting you, you should tell him though.

 

[positivity :)]

tbh hun not to upset you more but if that is what ive heard it is, i would find it very difficult to deal with. u deffo need to tell him coz i know i'd be so upset!

hope ur ok sweetie xxxxxxx

 

[Lilelephant]

Thanks pos I am glad u said that cos I thought maybe I was being prude! I hate it so much! And now to piss me off more he has book the cinema for a film I dint want to see in the afternoon so I miss wimbeldon when he knows I always watch the finals with my sister

 

[positivity :)]

that's not prudish, i understand people being into s+m and think im open minded but for me that's just too far and i'm not sure what i would do about it. very difficult!

xxx

 

[Princess81]

I'm not even sure what it is?

 

[Lilelephant]

That is my thoughts to! It is just plain weird. one time I got so mad I throw all my shoes in the dustbin!

 

[positivity :)]

aw bless ya!!! xxxxxx

 

[cosmicgirl]

I don't know what it is either but don't want to google it incase it's what I once read about which was really upsetting to me. I think I do know actually, yeah, it's horrid if that's what it is, I'd be really upset too x

 

[jomc]

I completely understand hun why ur upset... its not a normal sort of porn and I find it quite disturbing. You need to confront him... no arguments, just to clarify ur feelings on it, and to let him explain his side.
Stay calm and try not to stress... i know its easier said than done xxx

 

[karenandbump]

Hey hon, hope ur ok. I don't know what it is either (think I have lived way too sheltered a life) but its probably no reflection on how he feels about u. That said if u have discussed this befoire and he agreed to stop it then I think I'd be having a chat with him about it.... x x x

 

[cosmicgirl]

Agree, that's no normal porn. I can 100% understand why you are unhappy about it, I would not allow it in my house either. I hope he sees sense, completely understand why you wouldn't want that around lo xx

 

[jomc]

I'm not even sure what it is?

Ive pm'd you hun xx

 

[Princess81]

Ok, I know what it is now, and you need to get him to stop it hun, I would be terribly upset too and there is no way I'm a prude I'm liberal but we are all here to listen and try to help you

 

[cosmicgirl]

Ok, I know what it is now, and you need to get him to stop it hun, I would be terribly upset too and there is no way I'm a prude I'm liberal but we are all here to listen and try to help you

^wss x

 

[littlemiss83]

Dont really have much in the way of advice, but I've always said to OH if I catch him with anything i'll see it as cheating and he'll be out. If he was only watching it and not doing anything to himself then i duno if i'd act the same way but i'd defo kick him out if he was you know what...if he has his needs fair enough but he can do it in the bathroom w/out watching other women at it.

 

[Lilelephant]

Littlemiss I agree I know I haven't given him anything since finding out I am pregnant I am scared to lol but like u said why does he have to look at Percy things