violet13
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Hi ladies,
I had my baby 4 months ago and I have no urge for sex at all, even being cuddled is winding me up. But the issue is regardless of how many times I say I'm not in the mood as I haven't got the urge my husband keeps groping me on my bum, boobs and lady garden it's really upsetting me even though I've said it's upsetting me his excuse is "testing the waters" I'm actually thinking of getting something that will hurt him like electric underwear yes I have googled that it's a thing. I shouldn't be feeling like a piece of meat in exhausted as baby is still waking for feeds and I barely sleep as my ears are hurting though Drs can't find anything wrong. I really don't know what to do I'm dreading bedtime or being alone with my partner as he just won't stop it's not all the time but it's more frequent as a joke it's fine but I stopped breastfeeding at 10 weeks and he keeps grabbing my nipples which has caused a few problems with engorgment and very sore lumpy breasts and I am truly fed up I'm even considering sleeping on the couch more often than not and out couch is not big I'm not tall but I'm not that short. Advice please! Cxx
I had my baby 4 months ago and I have no urge for sex at all, even being cuddled is winding me up. But the issue is regardless of how many times I say I'm not in the mood as I haven't got the urge my husband keeps groping me on my bum, boobs and lady garden it's really upsetting me even though I've said it's upsetting me his excuse is "testing the waters" I'm actually thinking of getting something that will hurt him like electric underwear yes I have googled that it's a thing. I shouldn't be feeling like a piece of meat in exhausted as baby is still waking for feeds and I barely sleep as my ears are hurting though Drs can't find anything wrong. I really don't know what to do I'm dreading bedtime or being alone with my partner as he just won't stop it's not all the time but it's more frequent as a joke it's fine but I stopped breastfeeding at 10 weeks and he keeps grabbing my nipples which has caused a few problems with engorgment and very sore lumpy breasts and I am truly fed up I'm even considering sleeping on the couch more often than not and out couch is not big I'm not tall but I'm not that short. Advice please! Cxx