No sex drive at all!

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Hi Everyone! I am 18 wks pregnant and I have no sex drive at all and haven't had a sex drive at all since I've been pregnant. The way I feel right now is that I don't care if I ever have it again at all! I feel so sorry for my partner as he has a high sex drive ( I used to too) I feel horrible for never being in the mood I just can't be bothered. I still have sex with my partner most days as its easier then being pestered all the time but I wish I could enjoy it and get into it like I used to. Does/did anyone else feel like this? If so how long did you feel like it? x x x x x x

 

[Snuggle]

Hunny, dont have sex if you dont want to as you will end up resenting your partner. A lot of woman lose their sex drives in pregnancy (I certainly have! ) I'm sure your OH will understand that your hormones go crazy and he can satisfy himself in other ways (I bought my hubby some porn! ) So whenever I just cant be bothered, he just nips upstairs and sorts himself out

 

[NIE]

I have no urge for sex what so ever. I am lucky though, as hubby is too scared to come near me. He will not even cuddle up to me during the night incase he hurts me.

Snuggle: Thanks for the laugh this morning, it's just what I needed.

 

[maria1976]

Dont worry honey, ive had sex twice since I found out I was pregnant, just cant be bloody arsed!!!
DH understands though, he hasnt a choice LOL
xx

 

You could always try and get in the mood - massages, oils etc

 

[muppetmummy]

Don't put yourself under pressure by worrying about it. It will come back. Worrying about it will make it worse

 

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Thank you all for your advice ladies Mwah

 

[mrs_tommo22]

Hi Everyone! I am 18 wks pregnant and I have no sex drive at all and haven't had a sex drive at all since I've been pregnant. The way I feel right now is that I don't care if I ever have it again at all! I feel so sorry for my partner as he has a high sex drive ( I used to too) I feel horrible for never being in the mood I just can't be bothered. I still have sex with my partner most days as its easier then being pestered all the time but I wish I could enjoy it and get into it like I used to. Does/did anyone else feel like this? If so how long did you feel like it? x x x x x x

Yes same here, am not loving sex this time around at all, but my partnar knows and understands.Though we do have sex at least onece a week still.
You cant help it, its just one if those pregnancy things!

 

[lisa&alex]

im enjoying it more than when i was pregnant with my daughter. i hated men.. i wouldnt even sit next to a man at the bus stop.. they disgusted me.. lol..

we have had it about 8 times in 10 weeks..he should count himself lucky.. although i start n think.. err i ireally cant b bothered with this..lol.. then go all lazy n think hurry up will you! it will come back.. trust me..

 

[Pregnopaws]

Thank goodness its not just me! Since getting pregnant I feel about as sexy as a washed up whale! I read that hormones would increase sexual desire, but hell no, all I want is food! And if hubby even comes near my sore breasts he'll get a thump.. hehe..