long story......... here goes two and half years ago my husband tried to top himself he was working,i was working part time while being a few weeks pregnant as im an independent lady but we had a few debts to sort out total around 10'000 between us as we were working hard to clear everything.
Ever since then dh has been on sick leave and on benefits dh isn't ready to go back to work and says im pushing him to much to go back.
The debts are building back up to were we started again i need to start work to clear everything but nooooooooo dh won't look after the children cause his temperment is short he can't handle choas and daily life looking after his two girls.
Hes friends with next door neighbour who dh buys WEED off and smokes it in the house (only in one room though) but stills smells upstairs im concerned about this habbit he smokes it now and again,but this weekend hes going to some blokes house who he met on his chat forums 2 weeks ago going to smoke weed and drink booze.fair enough hes making friends and its good for him to get out but hes diabetic as well and hardly knows the guy.
We're on benefits struggling hes getting fed up of me talking about work all the time but someone needs to go back to work and brings money in.
At this moment im seriously thinking going back to my home roots and being a single mum
this is going to upsets the kids alot but dh won't let me have some peace
i can't sleep properly and can't be in debt all my life.
Sorry for rambiling in a way im scared of being on my own but i love my husband very dearly i don't know weather we should have a break for 6 months anybody been in this suituation.x
Ever since then dh has been on sick leave and on benefits dh isn't ready to go back to work and says im pushing him to much to go back.
The debts are building back up to were we started again i need to start work to clear everything but nooooooooo dh won't look after the children cause his temperment is short he can't handle choas and daily life looking after his two girls.
Hes friends with next door neighbour who dh buys WEED off and smokes it in the house (only in one room though) but stills smells upstairs im concerned about this habbit he smokes it now and again,but this weekend hes going to some blokes house who he met on his chat forums 2 weeks ago going to smoke weed and drink booze.fair enough hes making friends and its good for him to get out but hes diabetic as well and hardly knows the guy.
We're on benefits struggling hes getting fed up of me talking about work all the time but someone needs to go back to work and brings money in.
At this moment im seriously thinking going back to my home roots and being a single mum
this is going to upsets the kids alot but dh won't let me have some peace
i can't sleep properly and can't be in debt all my life.
Sorry for rambiling in a way im scared of being on my own but i love my husband very dearly i don't know weather we should have a break for 6 months anybody been in this suituation.x