I am 24 and after being told it would be hard or impossible for me to conceive, I came off my pill thinking it wouldn't happen. 2 weeks later I was pregnant and me and my partner were both stunned and excited given what we were told. We went to have our 12 week scan, we were told there was a strong heart beat and she showed us different parts of the baby. She then went completely quiet and we were told there was a concerning amount of fluid around the baby and that the measurement at the back of the neck was larger than they would have liked. We were told this would mean a high risk of Edwards Syndrome and best case senario of Down's syndrome. We were rendered to another hospital 3 days later for an amniocentesis test. By this time I was 13 weeks. I was rescanned before the procedure. I was told the baby had no heartbeat. We were devostated. I was told that it takes 3 weeks to pass naturally. I decided that I couldn't handle having a baby inside me no longer alive and went to hospital to give birth to the baby 4 days later. It was the most traumatic experience of my life. My waters broke and I experienced contractions and was given pain relief. My partner was amazing he saw things I would never had wanted him to see. After the baby had passed, I had to stay overnight in hospital and wait for the placenta. My partner slept on the hospital floor and helped me. I felt so many unpleasant feelings. When I finally passed the placenta I was shocked at the size, but I keep replaying the experience in my mind. It feels like everything happens so fast. I felt so low, my parents were on holiday so I didn't tell them until they were home, as I didn't want them to worry. Now I have gone back to work after the holiday and had to let them know what happend. I am finding it so hard as I now work with 5 pregnant women and one who was due the same time as me. My brother also has just found out they are having a girl and it got me, as it just makes me feel like it could have been us. Some days I am in floods of tears and other days I'm fine and trying to find the positives like I can fall. I'm trying to be strong and be happy for those pregnant around me but I keep crumbling as its a constant reminder everyday of what could have been for me and my partner. It feels so serial like nothing ever happend, but it did happen, just all so fast. I just wanted to share my story and hope someone can relate to it because sometimes it's easy to talk to someone you don't know but understand. I'm just really finding it tough right now to deal with this.