Would you?
I suppose it depends on the situation but i'll tell you mine.
I got married when I was 22. I had been with my husband for quite a while. Numerous factors played a part in it breaking up but it was down to me, I changed as a person. I lost my Dad then my Mam within the space of 2 years, I grew up very quickly. I realised I was with my hubby out of safety more than love and ended it. I'm almost divorced. Anyway now i'm amazingly happy with OH, I love him endlessly! He is my soul mate and now with Jack we are just complete.
Obviously no proposal has happened yet but it is something we've kind of discussed. OH would like to in the future. I kind of would like to but am wary, it's kind of like i'd be a bit embarrassed to tell people like family and close friends, like they would look down on me cos i've already done it once. I know the probably wouldn't but I can't shake the feeling. Also I know if we did OH would want the whole wedding thing, probably for his parents mainly cos he is an only child and I can completely understand this but that scares me too, would it feel the same without my Mam at this one?
To cut a long story short anyway... I would love to get married to him but not sure i'd want the same kind of marriage as him. I'd be happy sneaking off and it just be me and him but I know he'd want the proper wedding with family.
What would you do?
I suppose it depends on the situation but i'll tell you mine.
I got married when I was 22. I had been with my husband for quite a while. Numerous factors played a part in it breaking up but it was down to me, I changed as a person. I lost my Dad then my Mam within the space of 2 years, I grew up very quickly. I realised I was with my hubby out of safety more than love and ended it. I'm almost divorced. Anyway now i'm amazingly happy with OH, I love him endlessly! He is my soul mate and now with Jack we are just complete.
Obviously no proposal has happened yet but it is something we've kind of discussed. OH would like to in the future. I kind of would like to but am wary, it's kind of like i'd be a bit embarrassed to tell people like family and close friends, like they would look down on me cos i've already done it once. I know the probably wouldn't but I can't shake the feeling. Also I know if we did OH would want the whole wedding thing, probably for his parents mainly cos he is an only child and I can completely understand this but that scares me too, would it feel the same without my Mam at this one?
To cut a long story short anyway... I would love to get married to him but not sure i'd want the same kind of marriage as him. I'd be happy sneaking off and it just be me and him but I know he'd want the proper wedding with family.
What would you do?