Just wondering ladies if I hold the record? Got to say before anyone gives me grief my wife has had no pressure at all from me after the stitching during birth. Its been a rough old time in many ways since our wee star was born. We have had plenty to occupy our time emotionally in the family. That said there seems to be no end in site for the sexual famine im experiencing. We are now 15 months down the line since the birth and im still waiting patiently. Got to say its getting hard (well its not) but im still determined to give her the space she needs and hopefully she finds her way back to wanting to have it and not just because she feels she has to because i want it. Any advice greatly appreciated!