Sex

[~*Leanne*~]

Has anyone else gone off sex??

I just dont feel horny at all anymore, we havent had sex since we moved back in with OHs parents, i think its been like 5-6weeks now since we have had sex! that is the longest we have EVER gone without it since we got together.

we tried it on Sat night for our anniversary, but it was very uncomfortable and tbh i just didnt feel like it, i cant seem to get in 'the mood' like i used to!

i feel so bad for OH because before i got pregnant we used to be at it ALL the time! he is being really sweet and saying he doesnt mind and will wait until after Ruby's here but i feel crap for making him wait!

Please tell me im not the only one who has gone off sex/not having sex!!!

 

[ninjawomble]

Im GAGGING for it But mainly coz OH has been in another country for two months...and I always want what I cant get
I'll prolly go right off it when he gets here and I get self esteem issues at how I look, and just generally uncomfy

 

[blessed83]

you are soooooo NOT the only one Leanne!!!

i think its because i am so big and feel so unsexy that i cant relax. OH has been so good to me, he really understands and is so reassuring.

as much as i cant be arsed and would rather have a bar of galaxy and a cuppa, i am going to start to make more of an effort in the bedroom dept soon because my ticker statement is so true at the mo!! i think i can bear it again if it means the possibility of starting my labour!!!

xx

 

[Little Bump]

Nooooo you're not alone at all! I was up for it 24/7 up until a couple of months ago, now I'd rather have a bath and slob around in my PJ's!

However, my poor OH doesn't know what's hit him as I keep 'forcing myself upon him' (his words, not mine ) to try and get this baby out!

 

[hennaly]

its not that i dont want it but just find it so bloody uncomfortable now so its is getting a little less now

 

[xmcnickyx]

I find sex too uncomfortable at the moment. It hurts just to have sex but also uncomfortable because of my pelvis but I am actually quite horny. It's rubbish.

 

[Chelle]

I still feel really horny, but i'm so big and uncomfortable that doing it is not that great, and I usually end up having to have a 'time out' cos I get a stitch or a pain somewhere, which is not a great turn on for DH He is being really good about it, but I do feel bad that our sex life has been rubbish for months now. He still gets his treats tho

 

[louxlouxbellex]

I'm totally not up for it either I feel bad for my DH but he understands I'm knackered at night time. I'm going to make more of an effort though, maybe once I get going I'll be ok

 

[lea m]

I was until about 2 weeks ago! Now I cant be bothered! Dont even get horny at all!

 

[Julia]

You May have read my posts before....

Even though my sex drive is zero (and has been all the way through), My DH won't come near me!! Pregnancy totally freaks him out and he just does not feel putting his willy up there knowing there is a baby at the top!! He was also like it during my first pregnancy.

I also do not feel AT ALL sexy carrying the extra weight and probably give off the "unsexy" vibe. I am also huffing and puffing around the place which is not exactly a turn on either!!!

AT LEAST YOUR HUBBYS ARE WILLING TO DO THE DEED!! I do not even get the chance to turn him down!!!!

Never mind - at 31 weeks it is nearly all over!!

Julia xxxxxx

 

[nori]

Ive not been up for it for ages, infact since i got pregnant really. The first few months we probably did it about 3 times as i was soooo kncackered and didnt want to risk anything (even though i know its fine) and we may have had it a couple of times recently but im just soooo not horny. Im constatly thinking of the baby and what i need to do and what i need to buy etc.. that its the last thing on my mind.

I have apologised to my OH and it doesnt help that he finds me sexy whilst pregnant.. ahhh well...im sure he will cope!

Claire x

 

[Tracey S]

Ours has really dwindled too.

We have only been married 3 months and we should be at it like rabbits but we have got so much on our plates at the moment, we are doing up our house and OH is spending all his free time working on the house so he is too tired most of the time and then when we do get round to it, my bump is in the way and I feel really uncomfortable, and unfortunately for me the position we need to be in for my pleasure we cant do it anymore And there aint much point in doing it if I am not going to get anything out of it

I am looking forward to getting back to normal after the baby is born - or maybe I am being way to optimistic

Tracey xx

 

[Scarletts.Mummy]

I feel your pain!!

Me and OH are normally like rabbits but recently the thought has seemed like a chore, its just too difficult to enjoy when youv got the extra weight and I normally hurt somewhere or other so makes it worse!!

Give him one of those "treats " chelle was on about. I cant be bothered with that either but it keeps the smile on OH face and means he leaves me alone haha

 

[Chelle]

Give him one of those "treats " chelle was on about. I cant be bothered with that either but it keeps the smile on OH face and means he leaves me alone haha

 

[Ani]

You are definitely not the only one.

We were away last weekend for our one year wedding anniversary, and we only had sex once and it was kind of out of duty almost... There are so many reasons; discomfort, feeling unsexy, tiredness etc. Don't beat yourself up about it. Consider yourself lucky that you have an understanding partner!

 

[Chrissy1]

I'm with Julia on this one......my DH has gone off it more than me!! He's just worried that his willy with be hitting the baby on it's head....hmm, don't flatter yourself hunni

Although if I'm honest I have been feeling more unconfortable over the past week or so and haven't really felt like it either, it's a job and a half just to move in bed let alone get into a good sex position!

 

[Julia]

HHOOOOOOOORRRAYYYYYYY!!!!

I have finally met another woman who's hubby does not want to "do the deed"!!! I feel a million times better now!!!
Thanks Chrissy1!!!

Julia xxxxxx