Long termers 6 months or more

[IVW]

Haha @IVW I probably agree....if bleeding may happen with sex anyway maybe give it a few days.

I'll be honest I'm now 9+3 and we haven't had sex yet since my BFP. It just hasn't felt right...I've had zero sex drive and I think OH feels cautious. I'm hoping we can get back in the saddle after dating scan but right now I'm quite happy not being poked about....feel far from sexy lol.

I took my digi weeks indicator I think it was 2 days before I was due and got positive 1-2 weeks so I think they are pretty sensitive. Will be checking first thing tomorrow for your results xx

This will sound even worse - i am 25+3 and havent had sex since we found out god thats awful isnt it, my poor oh.

I dont have a high sex drive at the best of times anyway and the oh can take it or leave it, although the conversation has popped up a few times about how we arent doing it I am now pretty big, so not looking forward to it in anyway x

 

[SugaryIris]

This will sound even worse - i am 25+3 and havent had sex since we found out god thats awful isnt it, my poor oh.

I dont have a high sex drive at the best of times anyway and the oh can take it or leave it, although the conversation has popped up a few times about how we arent doing it I am now pretty big, so not looking forward to it in anyway x

You ladies have so much self control, I’ve unfortunately always had a very high sex drive! Although I will definitely abstain until I know it’s ok!

 

[IVW]

You ladies have so much self control, I’ve unfortunately always had a very high sex drive! Although I will definitely abstain until I know it’s ok!

I just cant be bothered most of the time

 

[Sugarpop]

Do you know how sensitive digis are?

Around 25miu. I got 1-2 the same day I got a line on a FRER (see pic). There was a 4hr difference between the FRER and digi.

 

[IVW]

Around 25miu. I got 1-2 the same day I got a line on a FRER (see pic). There was a 4hr difference between the FRER and digi.

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Look at those beautiful lines that must be very reassuring?

 

[Sugarpop]

Look at those beautiful lines that must be very reassuring?

Was done 4ish days before AF. I was around 12DPO maybe 11.

I couldn’t believe it when the cheapies had lines. Then when the FRER did as well I couldn’t argue with 3 clear pink lines

 

[SugaryIris]

Ladies I have the update for you, I caved and tested using the Asda freedom cheapie last night, there was definitely a line but it was very very faint. I tested this morning with a digi and got a bfn.

My lines haven’t been progressing and at 3 days after my period they should be. I now need to accept that I’ve lost another pregnancy, it’s been the same story each time.

This is my third loss and honestly I don’t know what to do with myself. Obviously something is wrong with my egg quality, which is common for pcos sufferers or maybe low progesterone or something as I can’t even make it to 5 weeks.

 

[Sjf0709]

Ladies I have the update for you, I caved and tested using the Asda freedom cheapie last night, there was definitely a line but it was very very faint. I tested this morning with a digi and got a bfn.

My lines haven’t been progressing and at 3 days after my period they should be. I now need to accept that I’ve lost another pregnancy, it’s been the same story each time.

This is my third loss and honestly I don’t know what to do with myself. Obviously something is wrong with my egg quality, which is common for pcos sufferers or maybe low progesterone or something as I can’t even make it to 5 weeks.

Aw so so sorry @SugaryIris i know there’s nothing we can say that will make you feel any better at this time but just know we are all here for you. Have you been for tests with your GP? I’d make an appointment to discuss your options x

 

[SugaryIris]

Aw so so sorry @SugaryIris i know there’s nothing we can say that will make you feel any better at this time but just know we are all here for you. Have you been for tests with your GP? I’d make an appointment to discuss your options x

In my area, the nhs won’t help me, I have been to see my gp but they referred me to the fertility clinic and we’d have to pay. Me and DH decided that if we were going to pay then we would go private so we were due to make our first appointment in January, I’m now going to wait until I’ve started bleeding properly though before I call them as for one of my losses I didn’t start bleeding until 3 weeks after my negative test.

 

[pupperino]

Ladies I have the update for you, I caved and tested using the Asda freedom cheapie last night, there was definitely a line but it was very very faint. I tested this morning with a digi and got a bfn.

My lines haven’t been progressing and at 3 days after my period they should be. I now need to accept that I’ve lost another pregnancy, it’s been the same story each time.

This is my third loss and honestly I don’t know what to do with myself. Obviously something is wrong with my egg quality, which is common for pcos sufferers or maybe low progesterone or something as I can’t even make it to 5 weeks.

Sorry @SugaryIris I can't imagine how that must feel ... but so awful to go through. I hope you get some answers xx

 

[chattychar1990]

So sorry @SugaryIris
Massive hugs to you x

 

[night owl]

So sorry to hear this sugaryiris, it’s so unfair, I hope you get a sticky bfp soon x

 

[SugaryIris]

Thank you ladies.

To rub salt in the wound a girl at worked announced her pregnancy today and she developed a bump over Christmas.

I’m trying not to be bitter about it, I’m happy for her, it’s her second child. I’m just so heartbroken I don’t think I’ll ever get there.

 

[Princess81]

Massive hugs sugar, I’m so sorry this has happened. Sending lots of love xx

 

[Sjf0709]

Thank you ladies.

To rub salt in the wound a girl at worked announced her pregnancy today and she developed a bump over Christmas.

I’m trying not to be bitter about it, I’m happy for her, it’s her second child. I’m just so heartbroken I don’t think I’ll ever get there.

These things always seem to happen at the most inappropriate time... xx

 

[LucyC]

In my area, the nhs won’t help me, I have been to see my gp but they referred me to the fertility clinic and we’d have to pay. Me and DH decided that if we were going to pay then we would go private so we were due to make our first appointment in January, I’m now going to wait until I’ve started bleeding properly though before I call them as for one of my losses I didn’t start bleeding until 3 weeks after my negative test.

Hi sugaryiris, I’m really sorry to hear about your losses. I just read your post about the nhs not helping in your area. I’m not sure where you are based but as you’ve had three losses I believe you can now ask your doctor to refer you a Tommy’s clinic. You may be able to get some tests done regarding the losses and save a little bit of money on the private referral for now?

Tommy's - I would like to be referred to a Tommy's clinic

Hope this helps. Xx

 

[SugaryIris]

Hi sugaryiris, I’m really sorry to hear about your losses. I just read your post about the nhs not helping in your area. I’m not sure where you are based but as you’ve had three losses I believe you can now ask your doctor to refer you a Tommy’s clinic. You may be able to get some tests done regarding the losses and save a little bit of money on the private referral for now?

Tommy's - I would like to be referred to a Tommy's clinic

Hope this helps. Xx

Thank you so much, I hadn’t heard of this before. I’m not sure whether I will be eligible because my losses are so early, I almost feel like im ‘not pregnant enough’ to be taken seriously by the doctors. Does that make sense? but I will definitely look into it.

Xx

 

[Sjf0709]

Thank you so much, I hadn’t heard of this before. I’m not sure whether I will be eligible because my losses are so early, I almost feel like im ‘not pregnant enough’ to be taken seriously by the doctors. Does that make sense? but I will definitely look into it.

Xx

Tommy’s are fantastic from what I’ve heard and I’m on their FB group which is good. I’m sure they wouldn’t turn you away x

 

[LucyC]

Thank you so much, I hadn’t heard of this before. I’m not sure whether I will be eligible because my losses are so early, I almost feel like im ‘not pregnant enough’ to be taken seriously by the doctors. Does that make sense? but I will definitely look into it.

Xx

Ye, a loss is a loss as far as I’m concerned and I’m sure Tommy’s will be the same, I know the hard part sometimes can be getting a gp to listen and be on side to get the referral though. Keeping my fingers crossed that you get some answers and your rainbow soon xx

 

[SugaryIris]

So period has arrived today, so I guess I’m back to CD1.

First appointment with the ivf clinic is 25th January so 3 weeks today.