leaving pf

[kirstymichelle]

after how a certain thread went i have decided to leave , i wish you all the best in TTC and hope you all get your bfp's soon , but the negativity towards me from some women based on an opinion of mine has made it unenjoyabloe to come on here and i feel as if any post that i contribute too will not be recieved well due to how the other thread went.

 

[Samsgirl]

sorry to hear that hon. take care x

 

[Annie050408]

Don't go hon - I guarantee you most people on here haven't even looked at the thread you are referring to. People on here generally agree to disagree and it'd be a shame if someone had to leave because of a difference of opinion. I hope you change your mind.

 

[kirstymichelle]

no to be honest its really upset me that they pushed at me so much i broke its no good to sit crying at a laptop! its not good for me .

 

[LouiseB]

Aw come on Kirsty, please don't go.

I don't know which thread you mean, i'll have to check it out, but i think i can speak for all of us here when i say that we really enjoy having you around.

Let me go see what you're talking about xx

 

[littlemiss83]

I know I dont belong in LTTTC but please dont leave.

 

[LouiseB]

The weed thread?

Kirsty, it's just one of those things...

I can see your point of view and i'm sure lots of people will understand what you are saying. Just because it's the same few trying to argue you out of your opinion doesn't make them any more right than you.

You just need to recognise the topics that always cause arguments and either stay out of it or state you opinion and never check back on the thread ever again lol

Some people thrive in those kind of hostile situations so just ignore them and don't take it to heart

 

[lesleyann23]

There are so many supportive people on here don't let a small few spoil it for you. X

 

[DaisyPurple]

I was involved in the thread, I don't think you should leave, I have sent you a private message stating as much, to be honest I do consider myself as a supportive person, and will give my point of view as much as the next person, come on Kirsty, look beyond this heated thread and see that this forum is actually a very nice and friendly place to be, in all the months I've been on here this was the first time anything like this has happened that I've witnessed.
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[Hayley1608]

Hi kirsty... i posted on the thread but im not sure you got a chance to read it.

I basically said that I feel bad that you have been left in tears by everybodies comments.

I went on to say that my comments were only to the OP asking for advice and were never based on anything that you had said about your own situation. If anything i did say offended you then i am genuinly sorry as i was only voicing my opinion. I understand that although your opinion may differ from mine you have just as much right to voice your opinion and give your advice as anybody else on this forum.

It's a shame it got so heated between everybody and i think its sad that you were yourself only trying to offer advice and support to the OP like everybody else and it all got blown up out of proportion.

I hope you do stay as i have found the forum to be a great support system and would like to add that i have not judged you as a person or as a mother and i hope that nobody else is small minded enough to do so either.

whether you stay our leave i wish you all the best with your journey.

xx

 

[dyscochick]

I haven't seen the thread, but it would be such a shame if you went because of a difference of opinion. xx

 

[Lilelephant]

Stay

 

[Lulabell]

I know the thread. Everyone has their own opinions. That thread went a bit out of control. But it's no reason for you to leave.x

 

[positivity :)]

i've read it, i don't think you should leave. xx

 

[Mummy2Adam]

Dont go hunny, Ive posted on the thread saying the same thing, you were honest in your post and i think it was a brave thing to do especially when it is such a judgemental subject. Things just got abit heated, with a thread that mentions anything about drugs and drink, people are going to have strong views due to personally experiances. PF is such a supportive and friendly forum hunny but threads do pop up when people disagree, but everyone must respect everyones views even if they think they are wrong. Please stay x x

 

[laurat]

Don't know about any thread but would be sad to see you go!!

 

[littlemiss83]

Its getting to the stage that ppl will be too scared to post in threads for fear of being one of the few with that opinion. It was a bit like people were being ganged up on.

 

[mopmum4X]

Its getting to the stage that ppl will be too scared to post in threads for fear of being one of the few with that opinion. It was a bit like people were being ganged up on.

I agree, dont leave us come back

 

[FebMum2Be]

We have had plenty a heated debate, sometimes they go out of control, sometimes they don't, we don't ignore or isolate people in the future because we had a heated debate about something we didn't agree on. Try not to take it too personally, if you are confident in the decisions you have made, hold your head up and agree to disagree and move on, it's what we all do when it gets to the point where we aren't all going to agree. I for one wouldn't ignore you or be rude just because we butted heads in the other thread, it happens, we are passionate about things and passionate about our children.. Also that threads about leaving are usually locked, just incase it gets locked and you're wondering why

 

[ippa]

I just read it, I don't think you should leave! The girls on here are lovely and are really supportive, i think people just have really strong opinions on the drugs subject and it all got a bit heated!
This forum has helped me no end, and if you stay i hope it could do he same for you with any questions you have or advice needed!
If you do decide to leave, good luck with the ttc!
XxX